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ilovebenbruce asked:

09 Apr 2011

Prom gone wrong D:

Okay so! I'm a freshmen, but I went to prom with one of my senior friends tonight&it was fun and all but it felt awkward because he likes me&I dont feel the same way. so I didnt wanna slow dance with him. Anyways another guy went there with his ex girlfriend&I like him(his name's Bo&he's actually 20! I know he's too old for me but I cant help who I like :P)but I've been talking to him lately and his ex girlfriend wants to kill me for it. so at the beginning of the night I wanted to dance with my date but he didnt wanna dance. then later he wanted to slow dance but I didnt want to because it would be really awkward. &by this time I really was wanting to hang out with Bo. but I couldnt cause his ex was with him. then I when I got the chance to talk to him, his ex flipped shit&came over there. then we didnt even get to hang out=(

So I feel like a douche bag for not dancing with my date& I'm upset cause I couldnt hang out with Bo. any advice? what would you do in my situation?



gtan88 says:

Posted on 09 Apr 2011

well she is his EX-girlfriend so she doesnt have any reason to kill you just for hanging out with him. Just hang out with him and dont mind his ex. You wont get any closer to him`if you keep thinking about his ex and try to avoid him. Who knows, he might feel the same way :)


davie2010 says:

Posted on 09 Apr 2011

i agree with gtan88.... ex means ex i think. and as far as your date to the prom... i really wouldn't worry... if your not into him, there is no sense in pretending.


kristakris says:

Posted on 09 Apr 2011

talk to himm:) hes a free man!


aqua926 says:

Posted on 14 Jun 2011

tell his ex to fuck off !!!!!!!!!!! she has no rite to beat your ass!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


maple_banana_cream says:

Posted on 17 Jun 2011

I don't mean to sound like the bad guy, but look at if from his ex's perspective. She sees you, so much younger than him, and doesn't think you're old enough for him. Maybe she doesn't want you to get you heart broken the way she did (even if she dumped him, it could still be hard for her). Maybe there's a side of this guy you don't know and she doesn't want you to know. She may not be going about doing it in the right way, but it's possible that she's looking out for you.
I would sit down and ask her (politely) what her problem is. (not in those words). You do have a right to talk to this guy, but she also has a right to look out for her fellow girls :)
Please talk to her, you may find out something you didn't anticipate :)


lindseed says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2011

the night's over. :)
hard parts done, so dont worry too much.
if you went to the dance as friends, then your date should have been fine with you not slow dancing with him.
and he rejected you when you wanted to dance earlier, so dont feel bad about him, he's the loser. (:
i know how you are with the older guys. i was always attracted to taller guys cause i was taller, but the taller guys were always older. when i was in 8th grade i met adn really liked a guy who was 19, so by the time i was a freshman he was 20 too. weird.. but he is a little too old for me. and a little too old for you. at least for now, you should try to find someone your own age.
plus, he's dealing with a stalker ex right now, so he'll need some time. :)
just wait a little.


ilovebenbruce says:

Posted on 10 Apr 2011

I know that since she's his ex, she really has no place to do anything. but in her words, she threatened to "beat my fucking ass" & I'm only 14! and she's 18. so like, wtf is her problem?? o3o I dunno.
& I agree, that I shouldnt pretend. but I still felt bad about him being upset. =/


davie2010 says:

Posted on 11 Apr 2011

omg.... what is HER problem.....that sux...just be careful. oh... and yeah...your feeling bad cause your so nice - not necessarily a bad thing :)

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