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ilovebenbruce asked:

02 Mar 2011

emotional/senstitive much...?

okay well, I'm already a naturally sensitive person I guess. but for the past couple of months I've been even more sensitive to what people say, and almost every time I talk to my mom, it ends up in a fight. I love my mom and dont wanna fight with her, but it seems to me like she's trying to change me. I feel like I cant be happy with just being me because my mom wont accept me for me and keeps telling me I need to change. anyway, so I dont hang out or talk to my family that much anymore, I'd rather be any where but home. I'm never getting along with my family. but whenever I actually try to spend time with my mom, she doesnt wanna or is "busy". so then just get upset and then I dont wanna hang out with her when she wants to hang out with me. lately, she's been making me go to church, and saying I have an "attitude from hell" and whatever else. my older brother is a jerk, so that just makes it worse. then my mom says she's gonna take me to a doctor to get my hormones checked out.WTF?



liannelovesmakeup says:

Posted on 06 Mar 2011

I think it's totally normal to be emotional and sensitive at this stage in your life. I'm guessing you're in your teen years, and that's the time everyone changes a lot and tries to be more independent. And I think that causes some parents to be control freaks lol. It's like a game of tug-of-war. The more you pull away from your mom, the more she tries to control you and pull you closer.
Maybe try setting up some activities with your mom where you get to spend time together, but not talk a lot. Like watching shows or movies, or eating snacks or meals.


zlika says:

Posted on 02 Mar 2011

Maybe its just a phase your going through. And it is exactly hormones cause hormones effect every thing in our body! However, maybe you are just a sensitive person and maybe your family just can understand it. And what your mom said- when things happen that isn't in the norm for them, they do blame it hell- I don't agree but like I said- your a girl and girls are really sensitive at times- maybe even more than usual. So don't refrain from communication- cause in the long run it makes stuff worse.So maybe you could pick a good time to talk to her, say what you wana say- tell her how your feeling- and if she really loves you she'll listen. And just a heads up- be prepared for her to say something that isn't exactly the nicest thing.
Trust me, i have the same relation with my mom. P.S> maybe its not that your mom is trying to exactly change you- think of it as... helping you to not get so sad on the micro things so you'll be happy more;)


modelmiley says:

Posted on 02 Mar 2011

you know, i had the exact same issues with my mom a few years ago. she kept trying to control me, and she wanted me to do everything she said but all i wanted was to stay home or just hang out with my friends. she kept putting me into random classes like singing and dancing but i just wanted to be myself. and because of this, i started to get very emotional over everything. at one point i would cry almost everyday when i went to sleep. but finally after a million tries i talked to my mom about how i felt and how i wanted things to change. now i'm living really happily with my family. just find the right moment and tell your mom everything, and if she's a good mom she will listen and understand what you have to say.=)

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