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"I don't mind if we take our time, 'cause I'm all yours, if you're all mine." -Defeater, "I don't mind."

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 6 years

What to wear with a high waisted skirt?

So I'm going to buy this high wasited skirt, that I just looove. But I'm not sure what shirt to get to go with it. I found this cute blue shirt that I think would go good with it, but then again I really have no idea! I'd appreciate any suggestions and opinions. :) also if this helps, I'm slightly on the larger side (as in, I'm not a tooth pick) and my bust is kinda large as well. Here's pictures of the skirt & shirt: 

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

almost 7 years

Self confidence?

Basically, I need some answers. I have this very specific mindset that I am fat and it's on my mind 24/7. Nothing is changing my mind. Nothing anyone can tell me will make me think other wise. I just feel so terrible because I see all these pretty skinny girls and think "why can't that be me?" why? I just can't seem to stop comparing myself to others. I could start from my feet and go to my head and tell you something wrong with every single feature of my body. Is there even a such thing as a self confident girl? How can I start thinking better of myself? It really depresses me, the way I feel about myself and I don't like it. Whenever I say anything to my mother about it, she only gets mad at me because of how I think. But she doesn't try to help. She's skinny, too. So it's not like she knows what I'm going through. My boyfriend, he's also skinny. Although he tells me I'm not fat, that doesn't help. How can I help this? :/

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 7 years

Looks like my boy problems never end?

There is this guy, & I like him a lot. I've liked him for about five months or so, like instantly when I met him. But he has a girlfriend. He talks about how he doesn't really like to hang out with her much and she's annoying and immature. He told me, he doesnt "have the balls to leave her" and that "he wants to move on but doesnt want to break her heart." Then he texts me a lot and flirts with me and calls me "babe" and "dear." I guess basically, is that a sign that he likes me maybe? We've been hanging out recently a lot, and of course it's been amazing and all. my friend keeps telling me that I need to tell him I like him, that that could be just the push he needs to break up with his girlfriend. But I dunno. I'm not really one to tell a guy I like him. Maybe I would... If he didn't have a girlfriend? I mean. That just makes it so complicated. What if I tell him I do, and the things get awkward and we don't really hang out or talk anymore? :/ asdfghhjkl :( what should I doo?

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 7 years

There's this guy.. Who's got a girl.

Aight. There's this kid named Houston, & I really like him. He'll flirt with me, be all cute & stuff when we hang out or talk. But then he's totally for his girlfriend, which I see. But like, what should I do? Drop him, keep being his friend? If I keep being his friend though, I'm just going to continue to like him.

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

almost 8 years

Good exercises?

I'm extremely uncomfortable in my body. It's all I think about, just about 24/7. Every single one of my friends are skinny & gorgeous. which makes me feel kinda worse. I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror without feeling disgusted & hating myself. I've started to do things that I thought could help me cope with it, but drugs & alcohol wears off. then I'm stuck feeling gross & huge again. recently, I was in a relationship with a guy that I'd been in love with for a year & then randomly, he breaks up with me. I started blaming myself & my body for the fact that he didn't love me anymore. A few months ago I started cutting myself. I'm aware that I obviously have problems. So, in order to be a better, prettier & skinnier person, I'd like to loose weight. I've started to try so many things, but I never stick to them. I have no motivation to get up & do things. The only thing I do all day is lay in my bed, text, listen to music & watch tv. I've realized that recently I'm becoming somewhat of a depressed person. All I want to do is sleep all day, so I don't have to think about myself or deal with the people & problems around me. I don't like my family. I don't even like my friends any more. I suppose that's alright though, because my family and friends don't like the person I've become. I try to avoid people & I had behind a masque of makeup everyday. I don't like to be around people, at all. I can't be comfortable around anybody, especially my friends, because they're so much prettier & skinner than me. Ehh, I'm getting of subject. Sorry this is so much to read. Basically, I'm too much of a lazy & depressed person to want to do anything, but I want to loose weight. How that's going to happen, I dunno. anything that can help? would be great.

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 8 years

I need a website that I can download music on??

So there is this song called "Single Millionaires" by a band named Brighten. & I am sooo in love with this song it's crazy yeahh so. I've looked on just about every single website I could find to download it, but it's not there. ._. I can't find it anywhere! so some suggestions would be pretty awesome? :D

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 8 years

Dying my hair, which would you like better?? x]

Alright, so, I'm gonna dye my hair. but I"m not sure what I should get. which do you guys think would look better? Pink on top with blonde underneath, or blue on top with blonde underneath? or should I just get the bottom layers pink/blue?? kthanks.(: & here are some pictures of me, so you can get an idea. :) the first one looks really stupid. o_O my boyfriend decided to take it while I was talking, haha. & the other one is just one with my friend.

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 8 years

weight problem. O_O

I have sort of a weird obsession with my weight. I hate my body. Every time I look in the mirror, I feel disgusting and ugly. I have plenty of friends that tell me other wise. But nothing anyone can tell me with make me change my mind. I have it set in my mind that I'm fat & that is not going to change until my body does. So, I need help on how to lose fat? o.O The only activity I do is twirling batons for my school's marching band. Other than that, I'm really quite lazy. I never feel like doing anything. & I always tell myself that I'm going to start walking everyday & doing these dumb little work outs that might work, but I never follow through. I eat alot of unhealthy stuff, and all I do is pretty much watch tv or stay on the computer. Now, I wouldn't exactly say I'm huge, but I sure do feel like it sometimes. & I don't want to feel like that anymore. :/ I want to feel pretty & be healthy! All I need is motivation to get me up & outside, and eating healthy. Any ideas? preferably ones that will make me want to start doing something every day & to eat healthy? kthanks.(:

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

about 8 years

how to come outta my shell?? it's too hard to break.

Long story short. I've been in love with this guy named Daniel for about a year. we dated last year, it ended weirdly & unofficially, if that makes sense. so yeah. and now we just started dating again. which I am super stoked about. but, I'm really shy. & at school, we don't really hang out or talk much because he's always around his friends, & I'm too shy to just randomly go up to him & start talking. & I told him that one day, & he said pretty much the same thing. and then, when we do talk & whatever, it's kinda awkward at first because we have NOTHING to talk about. until we get to talking, & then it's fine. but like, how can I stop being so shy?? O_o and talk to him more? we've only been going out for about a week. but I dont want things to stay like this. so, advice would be pretty awesome?? kthxbai.(: there's him. & me.(:

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

It's too hard to lose weight >

I really wanna lose a little bit of my stomach fat & get smaller thighs. I should be running & walking everyday, but the problem is, I just don't want to. I'd rather stay in the computer or watch tv. Is there anything I can use as motivation, or something that can randomly give me energy to be active??

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Umm..how can I get my mom to be not so..anti-piercing? o.o

I want spider bites soooooooo bad. my older brother even does piercings & could do it properly for me. only problem is, my mum absolutely hates them. How can I convince her to let me get them!? o.o help would be very appreciated lots! :DD & there is a picture of spider bites!! in case you don't know what they are :)

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

I never considered the thought that profanity "takes away from a person"??

I was talkign to this guy on facebook. & He asked me how my day was going. & I was like, "okayy I gues. I"m reallllllly fucking tired though." & then he said, "girls that swear lose some of their beauty" of course, I said I could care less about that. But then it got me thinking, my boyfriend always talks about my "vulgar" mouth. & I don't swear all day every day. its actually rare that I do O.o & I also know that whenever he mentions it, he's just kidding. He also uses it. but would do you guys think? is it, "inappropriate" to be using, or would it "take away from my beauty" ???

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

I'm not a tanning freak o3o at least...not anymore.

Last year, I used to wanna be super tan. I worked on it all summer, I used tanning lotions & oils. I tried various products. Nothing really worked, because I didn't really get tan at all. But! Now, I've totally changed since then. I'm not all obsessed with being tan. As of now, I'm more in between fair & kinda tan-ish is that makes since. lol. anyways, so umm. I decided that I'd rather be whiter, because I just can't seem to get tan & plus, it'd look better on me & with the type of person I am. I put sunscreen on where ever I go now, & I've tried using bleaching cream on just my face a few times to get rid of the freckles. I have also tried putting lemon juice on my skin & make a mixture of plain yogurt, egg whites, & olive oil, which is supposed to help. but I only used it a few times, so I'm not exactly sure if it would have worked or not. basically, is there anything that I can use to REALLY whiten my skin FAST? especially since its about to be summer & I'm gonna try to get a job at a summer camp. so I'll be outside alot. Is there any type of products that you/ anyone you now has used & has worked really good? that'd be helpful. :D

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Relationships. Not my best subject =/

Ughhh mkay. so I kindaaaa like this kid. he's super cute. but he's like a year & a half younger than me :O but he's really cool. I like being around him. & he REALLY likes me too. But I'm not sure if I should go for it. I mean, I'm not exactly sure if I actually like him. he's just a cute little cute, yeah? also, its about to be summer. & I'm not really gonna see him. so I guess I'd just talk with him for now, & then see what happens? but I'm not exactly sure what I should do. btw, his name is Braxton. xP buuuuut anyways. & here's the worst part. =/ Braxton is cool & all. but like, I'm totally IN LOVE with this other guy. except he lives one state away His name is Alex. & we have SOOOO much more in common than I do with Braxton. =( but Braxton lives where I do. & I'm afraid that if I did start seeing him, I"d think about Alex too much. =/

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Cold sweats/night sweats? O.o

Okaaay so. For the past couple of months, every single night when I go to sleep, when I wake up, I'm like covered in sweat. Its really gross. =/ Its not because I"m hot and sweating, because I usually sleep with a big blanket because its so freezing in my room. It's always cold, so that's not why I'm sweating. I tried looking it up, but didnt really find much to help. Some websites said it was most likely stress, then others said that I could have tuberculosis. I"m almost sure I don't, but I dunno. I'd just like to know why & how I can stop it O.o any suggestions??

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Love. Who needs it? O_o

Okaaay!! So I like this guy. & he lives 2 states away :O but like. we talk alot. (I've posted a question similar to this. so yeaaah) anyways. every time we talk, I start to fall for him a little more o3o & it seriously sucks. Because I know that most likely, nothing is ever going happen. Which really sucks too! :C Also! There is this other kid I kinda like. he lives where I do. & he's cool & all. but he's a little young. but super cute :3 && yeahh. he likes me. just great! & anyway, I'm so hung up on that other guy, that its hard to even think about any other guy besides him. O.o I dunno exactly what the purpose of this question is. mostly just to vent xD but ummm. what do you guys think? Its rough! =(

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

My mom doesnt like piercings... too bad?? o_O

Okay so a few days ago I told my older brother that I wanna get my septum pierced. Since he used to do piercings & tattoos, he knows all about it, and was all happy/crazy about it & he wants to do it. I can go over to my grandma's house, and he said he'd do it. & seriously really want to, there's just one tiny problem. My mom would KILL me if I did!! but I REALLY want it! & My brother already said that he is going to do it, and is even seeing about getting the thing I want. I just hope that if I did get it, my mom wouldn't see it & flip shit & rip it out O_e that'd hurt like hell :O sooo, what would you guys do? (btw in case you dont know what I'm talking about, here's a picture =3

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Hmm. kissing, huh?

Ehh, I feel kinda lame for asking this xD but like. I dunno if I'm a good kisser :O & a couple days ago I was hanging out with this guy, and needless to say, I was VERY nervous. & he said it was probably just because I was all nervous & jittery. hmm, how can you tell?? O_o btw, umm. if I really needed to put this, yes he kissed me :P xD

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

Prom gone wrong D:

Okay so! I'm a freshmen, but I went to prom with one of my senior friends tonight&it was fun and all but it felt awkward because he likes me&I dont feel the same way. so I didnt wanna slow dance with him. Anyways another guy went there with his ex girlfriend&I like him(his name's Bo&he's actually 20! I know he's too old for me but I cant help who I like :P)but I've been talking to him lately and his ex girlfriend wants to kill me for it. so at the beginning of the night I wanted to dance with my date but he didnt wanna dance. then later he wanted to slow dance but I didnt want to because it would be really awkward. &by this time I really was wanting to hang out with Bo. but I couldnt cause his ex was with him. then I when I got the chance to talk to him, his ex flipped shit&came over there. then we didnt even get to hang out=( So I feel like a douche bag for not dancing with my date& I'm upset cause I couldnt hang out with Bo. any advice? what would you do in my situation?

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ilovebenbruce

ilovebenbruce asked:

over 8 years

guy trouble >.< does he like meh, or not?! or does it even matter? D:

okay! I like this guy& I met him somewhere 2 weeks ago& he likes me too but he lives in a different state =/ anyways, so we have been texting alot & he's really cool & I'm really starting to like him ALOT & a few days ago, my mom took my phone&had it for 3 days but he didnt know that.&the whole 3 days, he didnt text me, not once! D: kinda made me upset =/ so anyway, I decided to text him like, an hour later. he never texted me back. so like 5 hours later, I texted him again. I said, Hello?? c: & Then he said, Sorry, I'm not feeling so happy today. so I was like, Well, do you wanna talk about it?? or would you rather not talk at all?? & he said, Ehh, I'll go with the second one... so then I was like, Thats cool. text me later? & Then he goes,Okay love

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