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iitsxtori asked:

20 Apr 2010

Making friends.

I hate to be stereotypical, but in order to explain this, I kind of have to.

So i hang out with who most people would call "dorks". And I used to love my friends, but this year (I'm a freshmen) i just changed. I don't even know what happened. i don't talk to my friends anymore, or anyone really. It's KILLING me, because so much has happened and I don't have that one special person who I can tell anything to. I'm stuck sitting with the "dorks" at lunch and everything, and everyone overlooks me, as if they think that I like where I sit and who I am. I don't. None of my "friends" are fun to hang out with. No parties. No nothing. And I hate it. Does anyone have any good advice on how to make friends? I really need help since I'm quiet and everything.

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omfg_megan

omfg_megan says:

Posted on 20 Apr 2010

-try doing things or going places where there are more people like for example maybe stay after and watch a school softball game or something(sounds boring but its easy to make friends that way)



- try to talk more, like if you hear someone talking about something and your thinking you want to say something just say it dont be shy.



-maybe you could ask someone if you could sit with them at lunch? other than the 'dorks'



sorry im not much of a help but thats all i got:[

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 21 Apr 2010

You know what, REAL friendships develop naturally. Try to figure out who or which group of people you tend to gravitate to or feel comfortable with and nurture the relationship. Before you know it. you will be surrounded with wonderful friends. Don't be afraid to smile and be yourself!!

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 21 Apr 2010

you just want more things to do. and you know what? your friends are only as boring as you are.



i was a dork in school. and i loved my friends and i had lots of fun. i would have sleep overs and go to the mall and watch movies.



how can you just not like your friends anymore! i mean were you guys even really friends? cause i don't think i'd be able to just drop my friends because we didnt' 'do' anything. i'm sorry but i would ask them to do stuff with me. if they didn't come up with an idea first.



and in highschool i started talking to more people and being more outgowing and i made tons of friends in all catagories i was actually the one person in school that wasn't afraid to be a lil 'punk' even so i didn't fit in dress wise with anyone but you know what my attitude was so awesome that i would have friends in every class.



if you don't like your old friends you're part of that issue. if you're changing then you have to change from the inside out. you have to get out there and make new friends but be careful wanting to 'have more fun' can get you into trouble if you want to 'go with the crowd' make sure you don't end up doing something you'd regret just cause you want to 'fit in'

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 22 Apr 2010

I kinda wanted to help but I can't since I have three friends and non of them is for me to tell her everything.... One is for one thing, second one for other and so far... Lately I make friends quick which my mom doesn't understand cause I was always shy... Just try and talk to people and see what you have in common.... I mean you're older than me so idk..... That's what I did and now I'm cool with the entire class even with some stupid boys cause I realized that I'll might need something form them or they'll need me and I like to help.... I really don't know!!! I think my answer wasn't useful at all but that's all I've got.... :(

lorii_grace

lorii_grace says:

Posted on 23 Apr 2010

awh

zebraprintersxd

zebraprintersxd says:

Posted on 23 Apr 2010

when your in your class listen to what people say and then just join in just be like sorry i just thought of it and said it out loud just talk to people it doesnt have to be about anything specific just be like i really like your oufit or you have the brightest smile

gabby93

gabby93 says:

Posted on 30 Dec 2010

I am exactly the same I left all my friends at school to go to college thinking we would still see each other all the time and we never do, I miss them loads but they have completely changed and I don't like who they are any more. My first year at college was OK made a few new friends but nobody who I can go out with all the time if that makes sence!
I'm just getting on with it and hoping for the best, for when I move away to uni am going to start a fresh as nobody will know me etc :-)
Spread your wingssssss, or just stick with it like I have kinda :/ xx

summergirl23

summergirl23 says:

Posted on 30 Dec 2010

i'm the same way! im a freshman too and it seems like all my really good friends have found other people and i have no one to tell anything to anymore. what i'm gonna try and do is just talk to some of the girls i can see myself being friends with and just like compliment them on like what they r wearing or something instead of going into a full out conversation and you can get involved too cause im in play and its helping me make friends they just arent really good friends yet

firefox_12

firefox_12 says:

Posted on 31 Dec 2010

hey, "dorks" are cool. Even if they don't let on as much, they can turn out to be really good friends. Trust me on this!!
Just give them a chance. Everyone in this world is human and has a good side, even if it doesn't seem like it. So many things in this world are not what they seem!
But if you really hate where you are, which I find hard to believe, but if you hate it then find some other people who you like the look of, have classes with, SOMETHING, so you have an exuse to talk to them and talk to them if they talk back. They'll think you're nice, which you are, I'm sure, and they'll want to be your friend too.
It's all been narrowed down and analyzed to the point of being a science. Good luck.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 22 Apr 2010

sorry i know at your age lots of kids get confused cause they want to 'fit in' and have 'instant gratification' so it's really normal to feel like you do but dont' loose out on great 'dorks' just cause you're confused

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