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hotpink asked:

17 Sep 2010

Why am i having dreams about a guy i never met?

Ok so this dude named Brandyn lives in Texas. Hes been my best friend/boyfriend for 3 years bu we kinda fell apart. We were in love for 5 years :L I hardly call him anymore and i started looking for a new bf before i broke up with him because i assumed he had a gf who lived there anyways. All the sudden when i find a guy i have dreams about Brandyn with other girls! D:< now it bothers me and i would like to know why? but*

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sena95

sena95 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

becuz you are thinking about him a lot , you start to have dream about him ,when you think about something a lot and it is really bothering you you have dreams about it , forget about him and your dreams about him will stop :)

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Exactly what sena95 said. You may not realize it, but he's always there in the back of your mind (subconsiously). Although, there's really nothing you can do, because dreams are dreams you may want to try watching a movie or reading a book right before you go to bed. Hopefully they will keep your mind off him. You also may want to keep a jornal of your dreams and record what you did that night. Something, might be effect the dream. For example, so food can induce dreams and make them more vivid. Or maybe if your watching or reading a romantic book it will make you think of him subconsiously. Hope this helps!!!

mistress1209

mistress1209 says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

he's still very much in your thoughts...perhaps not constantly but at the back of your head. Once you're over him completely, those dreams won't come as often.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2010

it's kinda like kids and imaginary friends



they make someone they feel a need for in their life, usually using pieces they've seen in others that they like.



maybe you wish you could find someone to be with that's this perfect guy for you and the fact that in the back of your head you want to find him it's made an image for you to dream about

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2010

Well, if it's hard to get over someone, and you just can't forget about the person. It could be because the thing isn't really over. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that the two of you still have a relationship. I'm just saying that, in your heart it might not be over, probably because you haven't had a real closure. You say you kinda falled apart? Does that mean you just slowly stopped talking, without ever really breaking up?

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 23 Sep 2010

Well, I don't know what to do about your parents. But I think what you need is clousure. You never really ended it with him. I think, in your subconscious mind, you kinda expected to talk to him again, never really letting go. And now, where theres a new person in your life, you get confused because the first guy is still in your heart.

So, if I were you, I would call him again with the intention of saying goodbye for good. I would start by talking to him normally, not a long convasation, just small talk, to prepare myself on saying goodbye. Asking him how he is, so that when saying goodbye for good, I would know he's well. Then I would say I wished him all future happiness and at last say goodbye. After that, if you really meant it as a final goodbye, you will at first be abit sad, because endings are always like that. But then afterwards you would be able to walk forward without looking back.

Of course, it very importen that you REALLY mean it. If you don't it will not help at all. You have to really mean goodbye. Maybe deleting telephone numbers and stuff, if that's what you need.

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 23 Sep 2010

Well, I don't know what to do about your parents. But I think what you need is clousure. You never really ended it with him. I think, in your subconscious mind, you kinda expected to talk to him again, never really letting go. And now, where theres a new person in your life, you get confused because the first guy is still in your heart.

So, if I were you, I would call him again with the intention of saying goodbye for good. I would start by talking to him normally, not a long convasation, just small talk, to prepare myself on saying goodbye. Asking him how he is, so that when saying goodbye for good, I would know he's well. Then I would say I wished him all future happiness and at last say goodbye. After that, if you really meant it as a final goodbye, you will at first be abit sad, because endings are always like that. But then afterwards you would be able to walk forward without looking back.

Of course, it very importen that you REALLY mean it. If you don't it will not help at all. You have to really mean goodbye. Maybe deleting telephone numbers and stuff, if that's what you need.

jod_mets

jod_mets says:

Posted on 25 Sep 2010

Dreams are usually made of things you were thinking or wondering about during that day.

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

Oopps!! I meant to say *Something might be effectING the dream

*For example, SOME food can induce dreams and make them more vivid. Typo!! xD

hotpink

hotpink says:

Posted on 17 Sep 2010

I still love him but me and him just wont work im not even aloud to talk to him. So getting over him wont be easy

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 18 Sep 2010

And what do you mean with "I'm not even aloud too talk to him"?

hotpink

hotpink says:

Posted on 19 Sep 2010

My parents wont let me talk to him because hes older then me. Yeah we slowly stopped talking

hotpink

hotpink says:

Posted on 19 Sep 2010

My parents wont let me talk to him because hes older then me. Yeah we slowly stopped talking

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