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Hannah Pryor




24 Sep 1992


Hey I'm Hannah! I'm a 19 year old college student. :)

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hannah924 asked:

25 Oct 2011

Why are some people social butterflies but others are not?

I just feel so uncomfortable in social situation with people I've known a bit. When I'm talking to a stranger I'm fine but if they become an acquaintance I never know what to talk about and I feel awkward. I don't have many friends either and that's probably why. I feel like people make fun of me all the time because I'm awkward and not the most attractive and come off to some as aloof. I only really feel comfortable with my boyfriend and my immediate family. My dad is the same way and I really don't know what my mom is about because I've never had a close relationship with her. My sister's husband says I feel this way because I'm narcissistic and always thinking about myself. I'm not sure what to believe. I want more friends and to feel comfortable around groups of people. How can I be more social?



xxgeenalivelyxx says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2011

1. YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE! :D You smile is approachable! :)
2. I think the key to being social is to believe in yourself. It won't come handed down to you nor be a piece of cake. If you doubt yourself in social situations and keep thinking about how you sound or act around people then that is like the barrier that is keeping you from being a social butterfly. You just gotta enjoy the day and enjoy having people to talk you. Of course, it IS easier said than done. You can;t just have like a whole convo start up out of the blue like in the movies. Maybe they are the ones that feel awkward around you because you are making it awkward. Thus, there is the problem. Tyr being more open and anything you notice, like someone's shoes or shirt, make a positive comment then turn that into how you like that particular clothing store and why, then continue on from there. Believe me, you just gotta push that domino over to start the effect then everything will follow along.
Hope this helped!


dragana94 says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2011

I pretty much agree with Geena,u need to be relaxed,and u have to believe in yourself.Because if u feel nervously,ppl around u gonna feel the same.As Geena said it's easier said than done,but try to be relaxed,enjoy the day,u think so much about what u're gonna do,say,stop thinking about it.U said when you speak with strangers it fine for you,than try to have the same state of mind.For conversation,go with the flow,if about movies,u say something like:Hey did u see this movie,I usually like this type of films,u etc.. :))) Ppl don't make fun of you,just don't think about it,be yourself,and the most important thing believe in yourself :)

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