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Hannah Pryor




24 Sep 1992


Hey I'm Hannah! I'm a 19 year old college student. :)

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hannah924 asked:

10 Jun 2011

Self-Centered :(

I've been told by multiple people that I'm self-centered. Some trying to be nice about it, other... a little more bluntly. Even some of my family says I'm narcicistic... It's just hard because whenever someone calls me out on it I start balling because I never try and I never realized I did anything wrong. It just sort of.. happens. Whats also hard is that I've tried getting my friends to help me and call me out whenever they notice me acting selfish but they just laugh and say I'm not that self-centered. Even my boyfriend does that! I don't know what to do because I'm getting mixed signals from different people... I'm the kind of person that hates myself whenever I do anything bad repeatedly and I'm starting to hate myself... I don't know how to get better.



monadz1010 says:

Posted on 10 Jun 2011

I can almost say that im stuck with the same issue at times with family and friends or been in a situation where one of my best friends is being alittle self centered; you need to know that it is okay. Everyone has a chance to change. We all make mistakes and often make wrong choices, but that is the recipe of life. People grow up and realize what they were doing yesterday is not how they want to live today. you need to accept that it is okay to sometimes mess up, but again you cant please everyone. Some people are gonna think something is wrong with you when others dont. its time for you to make your own judgement based on how you feel. Im sure you are a great person, so no need to cry or be upset at yourself.


kat says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2011

Maybe you're confident in what you do and that comes off as narcissistic to others. Many people don't have confidence so they feel the need to tear down those who have it out of jealousy. Don't let it bother you too much. If you know in your heart that you're not self-centered, what others say shouldn't matter. Just continue being yourself. :)

btw, I find it wrong that some of your FAMILY is tearing you down. Family is supposed to support you not insult you. I know that family may be the hardest to ignore but you have to do it. Sometimes family can be just as destructive as a bully in your school.


pearlypeacock says:

Posted on 14 Jun 2011

The fact that this is bothering you this much straight away tells me that you are not self centered. I cannot understand why anybody would say these things to you. You are obviously a sensitive person and i cannot see as you would need to change anything. If you are quite shy then everyone could be mis interpreting your efforts to be confident. Do not try and change your personality just because a few people do not like how you are.


foreverunforgotten says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2011

The fact that you're bothered by this shows that you're really not. I wouldn't worry about it if I were you. Ignore them, they don't know what they're talking about. & even if you really do seem that way to them, perhaps it's because you care a little more about yourself then you need to because nobody else does.
I really hope that last statement doesn't sound awful.
Do you know what I mean? I don't know you, obviously. But perhaps you seem self-centered to them because you're caring more about yourself because others aren't as much.
Maybe they should realize that you'd spend less time caring for yourself if they cared more for you. Maybe they're the self-centered ones because they want you to spend less time on you and more on them.

I hope this helped in some way. shape. or form.
Basically. Ignore them. You're not.


hannah924 says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2011

By family I meant my sister and her fionce. And I'm not very confident at all... lol which is weird because I always want to be the best at what I do because otherwise I feel like people won't think I'm good at anything. But I never tear others down or talk behind their backs. I just work harder at it.


hannah924 says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2011

Thank you. :) I really needed to hear that.

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