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Hannah Pryor




24 Sep 1992


Hey I'm Hannah! I'm a 19 year old college student. :)

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hannah924 asked:

20 Sep 2009

How do I deal with a breakup?

My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday night at the homecoming dance. I still love him. Last night I cried so hard that I had a throbbing headache that made even my throat and teeth hurt and made me feel sick to my stomach. It feels like my heart was ripped out and theres a throbbing gaping wound in my chest. He still wants to be friends but I don't know if I'll ever be able to just be friends with him. The thought of his face or the times we've had together is enough to make me ball. I don't want to eat. Is it normal to hurt this bad? he was my first boyfriend and we dated for ten months.... and I actually thought that he loved me. I need help.



hanlou says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

i really feel for you huuny, every1 goes through the same pain everday that goes by it will get easyier and easyier. He is a very bad person to do this to you at homecoming. There are plenty more men out there and you will find thery will be better then him. I think this is harder cuz he did it at the dance and not in private. Its abit humilliating for you. Try speaking to your mum about this cuz she will able to make you feel better more then anyone.


auri says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

yeah hes a jerk for doing that to you like that...

but everyone goes through it at one point and it only makes you stronger.

Of course your gonna be upset because he broke up with you...just dont talk to him a bit and let him know he really did hurt you. The worst thing is being around or seeing things that remind you of get away from it. Go hang out with your friends and do things that make you happy.

As for the eating bit, you have to eat! its not healthy, ik you feel like you cant but at least try to eat a little something and drink plenty of liquids. You'll get better, trust me =] and yeah, he told you he loved you but maybe he just wants a break and you'll find someone else. it didnt work out because you two were probably not meant to be, but you'll find your knight in shining armour!

hope you get better hun,



ctl888 says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

Aww, I am sorry girl. That is really harsh that he broke up with you at the dance. Why there? What happened? I mean it is such a public place while all your friends were around. Was this during the beginning of the dance or towards the end?

All the pains you are feeling are normal. He is your first boyfriend and of course you are going to be really hurt. This is your first break up. You just need to cry it all out... then after you have done that then you need to tell yourself, that 'everything is going to be okay. its over... its over.' you have to be strong for yourself and learn to stand up again. Do you have a best friend that you can lean on? Have her help you whenever you think you are going to be down. =) Girl.... you are going to experience other breakups and boyfriends... This is only the beginning. some will hurt more than others. Hang in there. Don't think negative thoughts... it will just bring you down.


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

I jsut broke up with my man this week too:( and i always wake to with a headche and dry eyes from crying at night and my heart phyically hurts so bad at times. Ive heard it will get better in time. we'll seee...


blondie_91 says:

Posted on 23 Sep 2009

i went through this about 3 months ago? when my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me because we kept fighting and yes it hurts A LOT and its taken me over 3 months to move on and stop hurting but its life. I thought he loved me as well nd he claimed he did but that was before he started dating my best mate who is now my enemy.

Some nights i still go home and bawl my eyes out but all you need is a good mate who you can rely on to talk to or maybe a family member because it helped me A LOT. try not think about it I know its hard but obviously your better off without him :)


bethanyjl says:

Posted on 20 Sep 2009

Sorry about the break up girl. hang in there


hannah924 says:

Posted on 21 Sep 2009

He meant to break up with me the day after but I noticed he was acting really weird. Like normally at dances he wants to grind and I have to pry him off but he would only dance holding my hands and slow dances he would hald me lightly from a distance. After me asking multiple times what was up and getting sketchy answers like "you will find out tomorrow" and "the nigh is still ours enjoy out time together while we can", it just hit me hard. I cried in the bathroom for a long time. And it was like 30 minutes into the dance. And I do kind of have a bff, kinda. We had a fall out and made up earlier that day but I don't fully trust her yet. My step mom helped a lot today. She took me shopping and out to eat at my favorite places and talked with me about it.

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