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hannah924 asked:

07 Feb 2010

A boy... what should I do?

So theres this guy, R, who was my best friend and we got along so well together and I really liked him so so much... and then he asked me out. and of course I was thrilled to say yes! But after two weeks this one guy pissed him off and it seemed like he made this huge change from nice and sweet to a huge male body part that wouldn't stop saying mean things to me and making me feel stupid for trying to help him out. So I broke up with him. That was on wednesday. We've made up and he feels horrible but the hurt is still there and for some reason I still care about him the same, just as he cares about me. What should I do? Give him a second chance? Or just continue being good friends? Because he explained afterward how he has anger issues and sometimes it feels like he's not even there when he's angry and that scares me.

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dinosaurslykktechno

dinosaurslykktechno says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2010

i say thats no excuse....just because your ex is having problems in his life, it does not mean that he can take it out on you....did he cuss at you?if he did, you shouldnt get back together things might get worse....make him apologize to you if he hasn't.......but then again its your life and you'll figure it out deep inside your heart(:..



good luck girly(:

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2010

sorry but he probly needs to be friends until he can get that under control and that happens with time. alot of times it's extremely hard for them to do that. but if you really like him you can make a deal that you'll be friends and you can even go out on dates but you won't really be going out steady. if he does anything like that again he looses his chance and if he can keep it clean till summer i would go ahead and let him have a shot IF YOU"RE COMFORTABLE



but from my experience people who say they 'loose it' and 'become someone else' are VERY DANGEROUS to be around. and they even use that as an excuse to become that person and tip over the edge when they could bring it back if they wanted to.



so if it were me i would say stay friends and i wouldn't date someone who would call me names just because he was mad at someone else.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

Ooww, girl I donno. I do not have any tolerance for guys that can not be a real man and keep their anger issues under control. That is a big no no in my book. Like there are so many 'what ifs'... like if he get so angry and blows up then lets it out on you and hits you. And if he has already started saying mean things to you and putting you down.. that is a bad sign. It will only get worse. Trust me, I have dated an Asshole before. All nice in the beginning then.. BOOM! personality change. If I were you, knowing what I know now...I would just stay good friends.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2010

relationships aren't that hard. it's very easy when you love someone to be nice to them even if you feel like shit. i know. you may want to be alone and it's ok but you don't hang around the one you love and make them feel bad for being there FOR you

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