I'm unfortunately stuck in the hair cycle. Cut it short, hate how short it is, grow it out, hate how long it is, cut it again. :P right now I have long hair that goes down mid back, a couple inches longer than the bottom of my shoulder blades. So now I'm wanting opinions! which hairstyle would my hair look with? (Not from the pictures, just in general) I've attatched a few pictures of how I look with long and medium length hair, but I don't have any short pictures because I've never cut my hair above my shoulders. What do you think? Also, what hair looks good with my face shape? I really am not sure what face shape I am; I think sometimes oval or square, but i measured it and my forehead is the widest with my chin being the narrowest, but I don't look like a heart shape, do I? What do you think? :) All opinions are appreciated! long: http://i45.tinypic.com/2cqemox.jpg http://i45.tinypic.com/11c3zwh.jpg medium: http://i49.tinypic.com/mjphxv.jpg http://i48.tinypic.com/kqm3a.jpg

Ok, I really need to find my dream foundation, but it seems like they are all the same... the best thing I've ever found was a tinted sunscreen from Clarins. It blends perfectly into my skin, doesnt rub off, feels very soft and powdery to the touch, and doesn't make my skin feel greasy. It's not thick at all. If anything its very watery, but I like that because I just want light coverage that FEELS light on my skin. But... its a sunscreen. Id be ok with a foundation that has a little spf but I really dont want spf 40. lol I've tried bare minerals but it feels thick on my skin and makes my skin itch really badly, and when I scratch my face then foundation ends up in my nails. Do you know of any kind of foundation that has those properties I described? Or if there's a certain kind of makeup I'm not aware of with those properties? :)

Is it possible to be really good friends with a guy without either one liking each other? Ok so my boyfriend has been hanging out with the girl lately and he mentions her like all the time. She's been posting pictures of them together saying things like "new best friend!" We hung out a couple nights ago and went bowling. My boyfriend and her boyfriend are both on the bowling team so they were beasting it up. I just noticed how he was always joking around with her and pretending like he was going to bowl when it was her turn. Once she turned around and told me I was really pretty, which caught me off guard because I was sitting there being kinda jealous of her. Do you think theres nothing to worry about? Should I talk to him about it?

I just really want to make them look nicer. Every product I've done research on helps a lot with older women but doesn't help anyone without sagging skin. Do any of you guys have the same problem and have found a really awesome product? (By the way, I've tried most drug store under eye creams and rollers and none of them have done anything.)

Ok, so I wasnt able to celebrate new years with my boyfriend because I'm visiting family for the holidays a couple states away. He kept saying how sad he was that he wasnt able to kiss me for the new year. I thought we were determined to at least kind of celebrate together... so when 12:00 hit, I had a text message prepared saying something like happy new year, I'm sorry we weren't able to spend this one together, but I'm looking forward to 2012 with you and hopefully the new years after that! But he didn't even think to send anything to me or even respond until 15 minutes afterward! I felt really hurt and like he didn't care but he got offended and was like sorry I'm celebrating with my friends right now. Even now I'm trying to explain to him that I was just hurt and thought he would care but he still is acting all sarcastic and being like sorry I'm a bad bf and apparently don't care about you. I just don't get it. And Mostly I feel hurt. But am I overreacting a little? :(

I'm kind of on a crossroads here. I've always sworn by a certain shampoo and conditioner (back to basics coconut mango. Amazing!) it always left my hair super super soft. I could comb it right out of the shower with hardly any tangles. But now since I'm a poor college kid, I have to suffice with cheaper brands. Like $15 or less. I've tried a few products that I've liked enough, but they took a little getting used to. I have some leave in product that helps with the tangles. But I'm just confused now if I should be really looking for moisturizing shampoos and conditioners because my hair is never dry, frizzy, ect. It's got a slight wave, verrrry thick, but the actual hair strand is fine. And it gets nasty and oily by the end of the day. What can I use to help control the oil?

I bought this dress at forever 21. I was shopping during closing time so when I was in the fitting room they said finish up because theyre closing the registers. I didnt have time to try it on but figured a medium would be ok cuz everything else I bought was a small and fit fine. Well I got home and the medium was so tight. It showed off everything from my giant butt to my nasty sticking out stomach. But I cant return it because I live 2 hours away from the nearest store. Any way I can make it bigger by adding fabric in places or something? idk lol

I just feel so uncomfortable in social situation with people I've known a bit. When I'm talking to a stranger I'm fine but if they become an acquaintance I never know what to talk about and I feel awkward. I don't have many friends either and that's probably why. I feel like people make fun of me all the time because I'm awkward and not the most attractive and come off to some as aloof. I only really feel comfortable with my boyfriend and my immediate family. My dad is the same way and I really don't know what my mom is about because I've never had a close relationship with her. My sister's husband says I feel this way because I'm narcissistic and always thinking about myself. I'm not sure what to believe. I want more friends and to feel comfortable around groups of people. How can I be more social?

I've always been a little on the shy and self conscious side and boys never really noticed me. But lately with my new job as a cashier at a major department store I've really come out of my shell and learned how to have casual conversations with people and to make them feel comfortable and cared for. Well... problem is I do the same with associates and I've made a few work friends but it seems like the boys have noticed me a little too much. Lol I really do like the attention (esp since they're pretty cute) but I have a boyfriend that I love with my whole heart and I know if he thought I was flirting he would be pretty upset. So how can I be friendly without being too friendly? (And its not like I'm being super flirty either. I'm just being outgoing with them as much as everyone else.)

I've always had a pretty clear face. And all of a sudden I started breaking out with really bad acne! I started using astringent periodically through the day and wash my face with face wash morning and night but it seems to do nothing; they keep appearing. How can I have these go away for good?

I've asked this before and kept getting mixed answers... like hourglass, petite, ruler, pear... what am I?? lol I'm 5'1", my measurements are 34, 27, 36. I feel like I don't have many curves, except my butt and thighs are kind of big but not really much bigger than the rest of me.... and I started getting an ugly gut within the last year. I'll include some pictures. Am I just stuck in a bla body type with no real definition?...

Long story short, I got a bad haircut, my hairdresser had to cut it short to fix it. Problem is, I don't know what to do with it other than wear it down, half up, ponytail, and straighten it. Any suggestions?

I've been told by multiple people that I'm self-centered. Some trying to be nice about it, other... a little more bluntly. Even some of my family says I'm narcicistic... It's just hard because whenever someone calls me out on it I start balling because I never try and I never realized I did anything wrong. It just sort of.. happens. Whats also hard is that I've tried getting my friends to help me and call me out whenever they notice me acting selfish but they just laugh and say I'm not that self-centered. Even my boyfriend does that! I don't know what to do because I'm getting mixed signals from different people... I'm the kind of person that hates myself whenever I do anything bad repeatedly and I'm starting to hate myself... I don't know how to get better.

In your opinion, how old should someone be before they are allowed to stay out after 10 on a weeknight?

I've gained a couple pounds since last year. Attached is a front and side view of myself.

I've been growing out my hair and I wanna do something pretty with it that flatters my face. :) My hair's pretty thick and medium brown. Prom's coming up and I'm thinking of highlights and lowlights. Also, pictures would be very helpful! :) , My face looks kinda weird but it's a good shot of my hair. lol

Ok so I started dating this guy... Jon* about 4 months ago, and he's the whole package. He's nice, sweet, funny, attractive, and loves me for me, even when I screw up. But just lately I've been seeing my ex (AKA the hot jack@$$) in my gym class and he's always looking at me and I find myself thinking about him and wondering if he still likes me. And to make matters worse I was hanging out with my friend and her guy friend at musical practice and he mentioned that he really liked me but saw I was dating Jon and backed off. And for some odd reason I keep thinking about him and if he still likes me and how funny he is. Gosh why am I starting to be such a mind slut? lol I don't want to leave Jon so what can I do to get rid of these confusing feelings? * not actual names

What concealers are made for fair cool complexions like myself? I've tried 2 concealers and even with barely any of it on it just makes my under eyes look yellow!

I'm going to Hawaii in 4 days and for the past couple weeks I've been exersizing more and being conscious of calories. I calculated online for my body weight I need only 1700 calories so I've been trying to eat less. Yet according to the scale I gained a pound instead of losing anything! Why cant I just lose 5 pounds to tone up my body a little?

I'm going to hawaii in two weeks and I realized I've gotten kinda flabby over the last couple months. I've got a picture of me sitting... not pretty. lol So what can I do really fast to tone it up a lil and reduce water weight and all that?