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griggs asked:

11 Jun 2009

My mom and her boyfriend!!

OK. My mom has a bf and she completly ignores me and how I feel about him. She listens to him more than she listens to me; as if I never exsisted. Is it wrong for me to hate her bf and dislike her? I basically have nothing to do with her anymore. She tore my family apart!! She is a very greedy person. Any advice as to what I should do??

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johanna_hernandez

johanna_hernandez says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

Honestly...i know exactly what your talking about.....the best thing...though i bet you have heard it already....is to talk to her....explain that your her daughter and should be top priority in her life....and not second to the boyfriend.....because BF's are going to come and go....but no matter what you will always be her daughter....and a daughter needs her mother around....physically and emotionally.

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

explain how you feel to her, tell her what you wish that she would do. tell her you're feeling left out so its getting you down. :]

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jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

tell her whats going throw your mind. everyone know even you and your mom that the daughter comes first, or kids come first than itss boyfriend. tell your mom that it is okay for her to date him but tell her you would like your time with her too.



my mom remarried. i do know and you have to know to you have to share your mom. let her have her times with ur mom but ask her for your time. Even if just watching a movie just the two of you. ask her if you can have a day of the week/weekend for you two to spend time together. you can do anything. stay home and do nails or out shopping. anything for the two of you.



tell her how you feel and put an extra sad face on.!

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

tell her whats going throw your mind. everyone know even you and your mom that the daughter comes first, or kids come first than itss boyfriend. tell your mom that it is okay for her to date him but tell her you would like your time with her too.



my mom remarried. i do know and you have to know to you have to share your mom. let her have her times with ur mom but ask her for your time. Even if just watching a movie just the two of you. ask her if you can have a day of the week/weekend for you two to spend time together. you can do anything. stay home and do nails or out shopping. anything for the two of you.



tell her how you feel and put an extra sad face on.!

jessd

jessd says:

Posted on 11 Jun 2009

sorry for some reason it sent twice..

i don't know whats wrong with this computer!

anyway i hope i help and you get your problems solved soon.

violetvibez

violetvibez says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

It is most certainly not wrong to dislike either of them. moms can be difficult. maybe if you get her alone try to talk to her. if that doesnt work then i hate to say this but just go and sit down beside her and cry. some times all it takes is the childs tears to really open up their eyes and see that yo actually are in pain. I hope it gets beter.



paige

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 12 Jun 2009

sometimes some people just aren't cut out to be a mom.



have you tried talking to your dad or a grandparent?



if your mom's bf is so important to her it might be best if you were in a new environment. you have to have someone in your life too that lets you know you're important. because you are

summiee

summiee says:

Posted on 19 Jul 2009

its normal to feel that way and its not

right for her make you feel that way.If she rather pay more attention to a guy who might not stay long is wrong in every way.when you vist he try not to talk to her or if her Bf and you get along tell him and how it hurts you

and by not talking to ur mom she notice somethings wrong and will want to know.

Ps

i know what you went or are going throw but think of the postive sides adout her cuz

some kids moms dont care for them or some of them dont have moms

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