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My name is Miranda and I am 24 years young!!! I live in York PA (you are not missing out!)...I am currently working at an Insurance Company and I hate it! I wanna get out and do what I love....fashion and magazines, but don't know where to start...




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glamorus_miranda asked:

01 Oct 2009

I Need Your Advice Please!!!

As of last year I had told my boyfriend several times that I was not fond of the 8 girl pictures he has in his wallet. I told him I didn't like that very much, he has me why would he want 8 other girls in his wallet? Anyways, last night my boyfriend left his wallet home and I went through his pictures and he still had the pictures in his wallet so I took matters into my own hands and took every picture out and ripped them and flushed them down the toilet. I told him what I did when he came home and he totally flipped out. When we went to bed he said don't touch me. I asked him what the big deal was, and I said what if I had men in my wallet you wouldnt like that either and he said dont put this on me....sooo what I did was it right or wrong??

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

I would do the same thingg =P

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

You shoulnt go things that are not yours, this is not trust. I never go through my boyfriends thing unless i ask even in his boxer draw nothing because it has nothing to do with me. I still have letters from my ex becuase they are sentimental maybe he felt sentamental for these. You can take them out fine, but ripping them up and putting them in the toilet is cruel.

Like how would you feel if he went through your pictures and did the same to any lad he found in them. I mean did you ask who these girls were???

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

it was a bit harsh but i do understand ur point of view. if i was him i would of took them out the first time u said so its kinda his own fault i think.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Yea that would bother me too. and if i told my boyfriend that this bothered me.... then i would expect him to do something about it. I think it is just respect for the other person. And vice versa. And these were girls from his High School?!?! Baby highschool is over done with... he should have just put those pics in the yearbook... and let it collect dust, not carry them around.



I donno, maybe I am wierd. I am the type of person that once I break up with an ex-boyfriend, I throw everything away.( picture, presents, letters or notes... everything) I want nothing to do with you and nothing to remember you by. Then I move on...

hayley___hamm

hayley___hamm says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

i wouldve done the same thing! hahaha since u told him 2 take the whores pictures out b4 and he didnt i think he brought it apon himself! and he will cool off and eventualy understand y u did wat u did! and if he doesnt then u mite have to evaluwate ur guyses relationship...

kirstiefrog

kirstiefrog says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

I would have done the same thing! why should he expect you to be there for him if he can't respect one (very fair) wish. you should have done what you did, and it's exactly the same as you having pictures of men in your purse. I'm not saying he's two timing you, but if he wasn't giving you any answers, good decision. If he's unwilling to talk to you in a few days, i would consider thinking about your relationship with him, but talk to him, you never know, they may be his cousins or something! :) hope this helps :)

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Well i would have warned him that if he didnt rip them up right then and there, that i would, because i guess the main reason he was mad was cause you destroyed his property so if you'd had, had him do it, it wouldnt have been so bad.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

i'm not that insecure. but my boyfriends are more accomicating.



i can understand if he had great times with those girls and he wanted something to remember that by but he should keep it private. but then again it was in HIS wallet. if you felt insecure about the pictures you should have asked him again to please pack them away because it's disrespectful to you and your relationship



and yes it was disrespectful to him and your relationship to distroy his memories and property.



i don't really know what his connection may have been with any of his first loves or if it was just some kind of conquest thing but i would have moved them and gave him 8 pics of me to replace them



that may help but i'm not sure. y don't you go out and take a few pics of yourself at you guys first date side, your favorite resturant, maybe a park? and give them to him and say you're sorry you were a bit rash but you were jelious and you love him and it hurt that he still had pictures of these other girls. you felt like he still had them as part of his life now when they're in the past and you're in his future

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

The thing is told him several times I didnt like them in his wallet so do something about it and over a year later nothing was done so i made sure it was done. i dont have random men in my wallet though thats the thing...he should have respect for me when i told him i didnt like that in the first place...these were girls from high school.

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

thank you for a guys point of view!

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

just got a text from him saying that, sorry he should have gotten rid of them. he is saying oh well they are just pics, like it doesnt bother him anymore...which is good , we are getting somewhere!

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Yesss I totally agree!!!! I get rid of my stuff too!

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

thanks so much!

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Did you ask him why they where there maybe he has a good reason??? I aint stickin up for him just girlfriends always jump to quick conclusions everyone does. I didnt mean you have pictures in your wallet but maybe you do have pictures somewhere. Or you do have things that you hide from him.

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

thanks so much!!! :)

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

yeah thats true too! i never thought of that.

glamorus_miranda

glamorus_miranda says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

he said they have been in there for years and just never took them out after i said something about 10 times....i dont have anything to hide from him, honestly!! i tell him everything and i dont have pictures hiding anywhere...my past is in the garbage.

hanlou

hanlou says:

Posted on 01 Oct 2009

Maybe he is telling the truth. Some people are like proper horders they keep everything and if it goes it feels like they have lost something extremely important to them even tho it wasnt. It might not be the fact that the pictures where of women that he had them. It might have just been because they had always been there he didnt have the heart to throw them away they where just part of his wallet like it was there when he baught it if you know what i mean. He probably just felt strange not havin them there.

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