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ginger_e asked:

27 Sep 2009

need some help and advise please

i dnt understand how come i cnt seem to get a girl friend. most of the girls i ve liked have always said i have a great personality and iam a nice guy. plus i seem to become very good friends with them. so they would normal say I cant go out with you because if it did not work out then i would not want to loose you as a friend. were i am i going wrong?



also what would u rate me on looks out of 1 to 10. i would of said i am about average 5 but i am i actually lower, i want people s honest opinion.

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2009

Well maybe your moving to fast.

I would be friends with that person, be a little bit of a flirt and if they dont like it or somehow push you away then you know your moving to fast all together.



Get to know a girlyy, be like her best friend be there for her and support her...mostly DO NOT ignore her because she most likely will feel pushed away. Just be nice and see where it goes.



I cant honestly rate you, not being mean heh but my bf is the only guy on the planet who is hawtt haha but hey! everyone has their own opinions and you never know, someone close to you might think you are...in a non- creepy way haha not family but maybe someone your crushing on.!



Good Luck!

x

ahroarah

ahroarah says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2009

just because you haven't had a girlfriend in a while doesn't mean anything is wrong (i've only have one boyfriend). just be yourself. i can't stress that enough. there is nothing that turns me off more than a guy who tries to act cool or a guy who is trying to be something they just aren't. some girls like a challenge, also. if you are making yourself too available... it's too easy for them, so they'll lose interest fast.

if i were single and looking, i would look for a guy who i could have a steady relationship with...not a guy who wants to party all days of the week or a guy who can't handle being an adult. i suppose it depends on what phase of a relationship you are in or are wanting. if you just want casual dating, look for a girl who wants that. if you are looking for something serious, look for a girl who may be ready to settle down soon-ish. don't stress too hard. :) it'll happen for ya.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2009

So you are always placed in the 'friend zone'... ic. that has happened to me before. I become really good friends with a guy and my intentions are only to be friends but they end up liking me and wanting more. Remember it is not you that is doing anything wrong... it is kinda how we already mentally think of you. So it is either, Yes I am attracted to you and possibilily want more.. or it is No, I love hanging out with him and he is a great friend-friend.

Or, if you think you like a girl, maybe you should try to start things off as if you want to date. Like take her out... hang out... watch movies... like do couples things so she will know from the beginning that your intentions are to eventually become BF/GF. If you start things off kinda friendly friends... sometimes we just assume you want to 'just be friends' and we do not think of you as anything more. Like when I met my boyfriend, he would call and want to set up dates to go and hang out.. then when we did he would make it very apparent that he liked me more than just friends so I knew how he felt. So I knew is was not just a friendly...'let hang out as friends' type thing. See once I place a guy in the friend zone it is really difficult for me to take him out of that category and become attracted to him.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2009

truthfully alot of girls are looking for the bbd the bigger better deal most have the idea of a big strong guy with sharp square features. cause at the moment that's what's the most popular thing on the teenbeat scene



if you really want to find a girl you have to maybe meet them in a more date like scene. like at a party or club. or online. you know for sure they are looking for someone already not just a best mate

midsummer_dreams

midsummer_dreams says:

Posted on 29 Sep 2009

I don't give numbers. But I can tell you, you really are a great guy. you're really friendly, helpful and pretty cool IMO. and girls just become mates wit you cos your really easy going and down-to-earth. your a friend-material to em. but seriously, when the right one comes along you'll know. sorry if this isn't much of the answer, but its the whole truth fitted into a sentence :] just enjoy life instead on girlhunting. Just remember you're much cooler than those guys who only want one thing from girls and you wouldnt wanna scoop down to their level, like acting all 'bad' to look cool infront of girls, or even going out with the sluttiest girls just for the sake of getting a gf, cos you're worth much better than that!

:)

auri

auri says:

Posted on 27 Sep 2009

and just because you havent had a gf in awhile doesent mean your ugly or there is something wrong with you...just waiting around to find your match :] Better than being heartbroken hmm? Dont give up! She'll turn up =)

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2009

hey thanx for answer, its handy to get some adive :)

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2009

thanx for ur reply

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2009

thanx for ur reply

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 28 Sep 2009

ya i ve never fancyd a best mate. its normaly i meet a girl who i like, who then becomes a gd friend. thanx 4 ur reply

ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 30 Sep 2009

thanx

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