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ginger_e asked:

06 Jan 2010

how do you know if a girl likes you or just likes you as a friend

might be a stupid question but i suck when it comes down to this. i always seem to get stuck in the friend zone.



shysparrow13 says:

Posted on 06 Jan 2010

it's not stupid, and you're smart to ask us girls instead of your guy buddies. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't use bad jokes as a test, or you'll risk looking like a comedy loser.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot for no reason.

Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.

Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. But conversely, don't assume that just because she isn't touching you that she doesn't like you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.

Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.

Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date, Who do you like better, Who is the hottest, etc. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.

Look out for the damsel in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, in which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your cue to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.

Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.


manssskulll says:

Posted on 06 Jan 2010

If she like likes you then she'll wanna talk to you alot more than a normal friend would, she will stare alot too, blush,she will fiddle with any thing, hair, clothing, phone, key rings etc cause shes nervous,

if she just likes you as a friend she wouldnt fiddle cause she comfy around you and just act like one of the guys, if that makes sense :P x


barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Jan 2010

yea if she starts to really like you and realizes it she'll starting acting a bit more nervous around you or sometimes more flirtatious


ctl888 says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010

humm.. first of all see how she responds to you. when you talk to her does she kinda touch your arm or try to get close to you. ( I am not sure how old you are... but this is kinda what girls my age do...i am kinda old..) We make eye contact with you so you know we are listening and pay attention. We laugh at your jokes and nervously play with our hair. Lots of smiles. We are attentive to you and we want to talk to you. We will send you text messages...but usually after you have texted us first. ( we do not want to seem needy).


crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010

i had the same

i just had to say a guy i just like him as a FRIEND.

i guess if u wana kow and u really like her just ask her if she like u or just as friends.

its just better because she will just think "yeah my best guy friend" till she knows and when u tell her she might notice that she like u back..

hope this helps



barbiegirl says:

Posted on 10 Jan 2010

when a girl fancies you she will do little things such as touch your arm like flirting and stuff,but if she likes you as just a friend she will just talk about random friendly stuff,you should be able to see the signs anyway she'l giggle at you even if your not after saying anything funny etc...


ginger_e says:

Posted on 06 Jan 2010

thanx for that


ginger_e says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010

thanx you


ginger_e says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010

thanx for the reply


ginger_e says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010



ginger_e says:

Posted on 08 Jan 2010

thanx 4 ur reoply

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