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gee_jade asked:

28 Jan 2010

should i be scared to fall in love?

okay so i experienced getting hurt in a relationship. i can say i've moved on. now there's this gorgeous guy i like but i'm scared to get hurt again. and i'm scared coz i'm not sure about his background on relationships............does he know how to love? was he serious withhis pasts? help me!!!!! this is him just in case you guys were curious...........^_^ he's in sixth grade but a few months older than me.....reasons are very good though..^_^



fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 28 Jan 2010

youll be fine, every guys different you cant judge on past things. he is only sixth grade so hopefully he does not have too much baggage yet. but if you end up dating him, dont feel you have to fall in love with him right away. you can like him and hang out with him and call him your bf but you dont have to say you love him and he doesnt have to say it to you. that part takes times and when you truly know he is a good guy that isnt going to break your heart-then you could think about falling in love with him.


abbeyjo says:

Posted on 28 Jan 2010

Don't be afraid. Pain is only weakness leaving the body. I don't recommend falling in love a t your age, but you need to face your fears at some point. Your going to have to fall in love someday, and you cant spend your whole life scared.


nana_0601 says:

Posted on 28 Jan 2010

yeah, you don't want to rush into something and get heartbroken. Take things slowly, learn about each other spend time with each other, I doubt being a 6th grader love is the first thing on his mind, since biologically speaking hormones are on the rage then...but you never just have to take your time, and be careful. Your both not that old, and you still have plenty of time to find "love". So no need to rush it. They'll always be pain, and hurt along with unsuccessful relationships, but you get through it and realize, "eh, its their lost and you can do way better than someone that would hurt you." and then you move on, to try again. Is it scary? Yes. Should you be afraid to be in a relationship because of that? No, but you should just be careful.


runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2010

Not to burst your bubble, darling, 6th grade seems kind of young.

But, hey, if you think you're in love don't let me stop you(:

I think you have nothing to be afraid of. Getting hurt's just part of the process.

"You can't have a rainbow without any rain"

Btw, I've been dating this speacial someone for at least 9 months and we haven't ever told each other "I love you"


runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2010

Good luck, sunshine(:


barbipixi says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2010

sorry but 6th grade is still very young and it's about having fun and learning. don't get or expect to get in too deep. just try to keep it light and have a good time. it'll be ok just keep your eyes open and if you're not happy then it's time to move on.

go for it


ctl888 says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2010

Everyone is scare. Many people have been hurt. But, knowing that you and him are in the 6th grade...I really do not think he has must of a 'past' you need to worry about. Beside, we learn from our experiences of being hurt or what not. so do not think of it as always a bad experience. That is how we grow as women. You will learn what to avoid or look for next time...


aangellynn says:

Posted on 29 Jan 2010

you shouldnt be afraid to fall in love, you are going to go through alot of hurt and this is only the beginning sorry if this scares you, but it only makes you stronger in the end. your still young and your going to love a few people before u actually find the one, but if you keep shying away from love because your afraid you'll get hurt im sorry to say that you wont even get to the point of finding your true love because if your so afraid to love someone than you wont show your true feelings or you'll try not to let the relationship get to far, your learn more and more as you grow and you'll learn how to cope so when you get hurt you'll realize hes not the one and just keep looking for him

but remember your still young, try to focus on living your life and having fun and enjoy being a kid, and not worrying about boyfriends


xxmusicluverxx says:

Posted on 31 Jan 2010

I'm only in 7 grade, a year or two older than you, and I've never dated a guy. You shouldn't either cuz your too young, but you can be buddies. If you can make it to at least 8 or 9 grade and still close buddies, then I recommend you can date. (but high school is when you SHOULD date.)


xxmusicluverxx says:

Posted on 31 Jan 2010

Hey, you took my little poem! (lolz thats okay. it gets kinda addicting to say though...)


xxmusicluverxx says:

Posted on 31 Jan 2010

By the way, that guy is h-h-HOT! ('Nuff said.)

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