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gee_jade asked:

23 Aug 2009

okay so i know i'm pretty but how do i satnd out?

okay so i really really wanna attract more guys. i think i come off too strong though coz i stand up for myself and i'm first honor, not bragging but i think most are intimidated and they can't really speak englsh well....only me and my friends and some other people. anyway, so i know i have a pretty damn good looking face, and again, not bragging, just proud and pissed off at the same time, i'm short for my age but i got the looks. and i really wanna attract more guys!!! please help me how do i stand out? i'm not much of a social butterfly and my friends say that my eyes are really scary when i glare........help? thanks in advance!!! ^_^ oh and even when i don't glare i glare daggers sometimes...idk what's wrong!



i know, i know i sound kinda cocky but i can't help it i'm just so tired of being unnoticed and no i don't seek attention it's just that i really need help in being more social and i'm kinda intimmidated by the fact that most of my friends have boyfriends or if not, many suitors and because i'm anti social i don't attract as many as they do. i do attract some but they're all.......oh they're not my type.........please help me.......

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little_miss_sunshine

little_miss_sunshine says:

Posted on 23 Aug 2009

Just relax and be yourself - the reason why you go on defence mode and sometimes glare, is probably because your nervous and not comfortable around them.

Make sure you always feel good about how you look and that you are friendly and smile at people while you get to know them - becuase although first impressions do count you can sometimes get off on the wrong foot with people so always give them another chance.

When talking to boys, make sure you ask about them too and don't just talk all about yourself.

Your really lucky that you've got the looks and so now all you need to work on is how you are around boys which once you've got the hang of will be easy peasy :)

manatee

manatee says:

Posted on 23 Aug 2009

Stand out by not worrying about attracting guys. So many girls act so unnatural just because they think that what they're doing will 'attract', and they end up embarrassing themselves and drawing negative attention to themselves.



Spend your time putting energy into things that you're interested in/make you happy, and you'll attract the kinds of people who you want in your life.



Why do you want to 'attract more guys', anyway? The way you say it doesn't sound like you want to attract anyone in particular, but rather you want attention from as many guys as possible. Rethink that.

shinja

shinja says:

Posted on 23 Aug 2009

Yeah, boys are idiots. I aren't popular at all, and then guys in my class only like popular girls. I know it sounds like a bad excuse, but it is true, only the popular girl have dated anyone in the class. Anyway, my adduite is: "If you don't like me because I am not one of the popular make-up dolls then I don't care because you probably wouldn't be able to handle me even if we got together." I don't think you should try to change your personality because of some stupid boys. :O

manatee

manatee says:

Posted on 23 Aug 2009

I was very shy/anti-social in high school, and that's how I met the guy who I've been dating for a year and a half. Honestly, just be yourself. It pays off.



Also, I attracted a lot of boys that way. They all told me they thought I was intriguing and mysterious and wanted to get to know me better. I'm not speaking for all males now, but a few of the males who I've been closer to have told me that they're really turned off by loud girls. Like they find them annoying and even dumb.



So, if you're pretty, and confident in whatever you're doing, you'll attract boys.

conner

conner says:

Posted on 24 Aug 2009

always the little things make a difference. like if you smile more,wash your face every day,workout weeekly...you get the point

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