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gee_jade asked:

26 Jan 2010

ok seriously it's always like this help me!!!!

ok, so i've noticed....whenever i have a crush, whether it be real life or actors in a tv series.....it's always like this. first i notice the good guy, like his traits and leadership skills.....and then after a while, i'll notice the antagonist which is the bad guy obviously, but the kind who's not pure evil though.......sometimes he's the mischievous bad guy who turns out to have a good side too and maybe even end up being one of the good guys but still keeping his bad boy aura........why is it like that? is it just me? i get really confused and i end up not knowing who to love.........help?

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_riah_

_riah_ says:

Posted on 26 Jan 2010

You are just noticing the fact that people have good and bad qualities. It's not something wrong with you, if anything that could help you in the future in serious relationships. You don't want to put someone on a pedestal and then when they make a mistake, it breaks your heart...people are people and we have to be realistic.



Well, when you like someone enough to get into a serious relationship with them, you have to look past whatever bad qualitites they have because to you, the good will outway the bad. : )



Don't freak out, it just seems you are very intuitive.

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 26 Jan 2010

you are just prejudging people whether it is the good side or bad side. you just assume they are one way till you discover that they do have another side to them... you should kinda keep an open mind about people before prejudging them. Keeping an open mind about people in the beginning will allow you to learn and accept their personality then just judging them from the beginning.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 26 Jan 2010

lol almost all girls like the 'bad boy' with the 'soft good guy side' it's not just you don't worry usually it's because that bad boy is so uninteresting and fun. and to some girls they don't realize how hard it is to find a bad boy that's truly a good guy deep down.



and it's ok to like them but unless you know for sure they're a good guy i wouldn't really date one : P

aangellynn

aangellynn says:

Posted on 26 Jan 2010

well first off you are obviously noticing differences in guys

and well us girl always go for the bad boys , its not just you, I'd say bad boys give excitement to a girls life ecspecially if your not one to get in trouble, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it, just remember when a "good boy" comes in your life dont push them away hoping to get with the bad boy

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 27 Jan 2010

sounds like you like bad boys who are really good guys. you may just be really intuitive about personalties and characteristic of people and you may just be letting your imagination run away with you. whoever you decide to actually date make sure he's a good guy-with a little bit of mischief though or life would be no fun:)

me_is_reid_mckeel

me_is_reid_mckeel says:

Posted on 03 Feb 2010

You have been looking at the cute guys and only seeing their good side. Everyone has a bad side whether it makes up most of them or only an inch. You should pick the nicest and kindest to you and your friends. Not stuck up like most.

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