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gee_jade asked:

22 May 2011

i need help :/

over the summer i've gained some fat :/ it's bad enough that i have recently developed a low self esteem and now i'm fat too :/ okay here's the deal. i'm short, i'm fat and i feel so ugly :(( dark circles on my eyes, not so great hair...ugh! everything just feels so ugly :(( i'm not very tall around 4"7 i think and i weigh 40 pounds. please help me get my self esteem back, school starts in two weeks and i don't know what to do. it's a new school, and i want to make a great impression but how can i when i'm fat and ugly? :((



ilovebenbruce says:

Posted on 22 May 2011

You're 4'7" & you only weigh 40 pounds? O.o
I think you should see a doctor about that....that's pretty small.
In no way at all do you seem fat to me x_x
but as for the circles under your eyes, you should just try applying a little more foundation on the circles. & get more sleep! :P
Umm, what exactly is wrong with your hair?? gimme more details, maybe I can help. My friend went to cosmetology school, plus I do alot of research on hair xD I can most likely help. :D


ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 23 May 2011

40 pounds??? Ummm...that's skinny....really skinny sweetie. :) And I'm sure you're not ugly. You know, I've talked about this a million times, but I'll say it again. Every girl, no matter how pretty goes through a period of time wear they feel sooo self-conscious (it's pretty much called the "awkward" phase). Hey guess what? I'm still going through it...and I've been going through it for a few years now. And let me tell you now....if you were taller (try 5"11 for example) you would want to be shorter. I'm 5"11 (only 14 by the way) and some times I wish I was an inch shorter, but ya know what? Listen to Lady GaGa's new song "Born this way", because the song tells it like it is. You were Born the Way you are and everybody (including yourself) should accept that. Now with that said...let's try working on the stuff you can change. Eat healthy, drink at least 8 glasses of water a day (I know it's difficult, but you will feel sooo much better), exercise.....that's what you can do for your weight. You don't need to loose any...just to keep in shape. For the dark circles....sleep, water, and take a couple of potato slices and put them over your eyes for 10 minutes. Take a day to focus ONLY on you....put on a face mask, give yourself a pedicure and manicure, give your self a warm relaxing bath with candles and everything. Look in the mirror everyday and say "I'm beautiful", you will start to believe yourself (because honey, you are beautiful). And you want to know something (I know you probably here this all the time)...the most beautiful and sexiest thing about a girl is their confidence and personality. Well, good luck girly. :)


gee_jade says:

Posted on 23 May 2011

thank you :)) well i'm growing my hair out and it lost its shine and shape :p and my bangs are not so great either. thin, same length and i side sweep it which works most of the time i guess but it's not great at all :p


gee_jade says:

Posted on 23 May 2011

thank you :)) that means a lot to me really :))

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