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gee_jade asked:

17 May 2010

i just realized something........i think?

ok, so people always say that i'm more mature than anyone in my age group, or i talk like i'm someone older than i actually am, and i THINK that's the reason why i crave or want older guys to be with me, to even it out? i dnt know it's just what i think, what do you think? what i mean is i THINK i may want older guys because i'm looking for someone who has the same level of thinking as me..........not saying that i'm the smartest in my age group, just that i have a more open and understanding mind



shadyca says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

I think you like older guys because you want to stand out of the crowd, one thing is to date a boy who is 2, 3, even 4 years older than you. but this guy is in his 20's and he has nothing to do with a 14-year ol girl. put yourself in his position, if you were 20 years old and had 14 year old boy in love with you, what would you think/do? laws that forbid that kind of relationship are here for a reason. he is probably a sexually active guy, and you're 14. and imagine how would it look to walk with him in the streets, with 6 years difference.

I'm sorry I have to repeat this everytime you post a question about him, but I just want you to realise something. whch you obviously aren't.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

sorry but most girls your age find it cooler to have an older boyfriend besides usually they can drive or they already have more of a 'man' appearance as in they're jaws are more filled out or they have the acne under control. normally at your age the guys in your age group aren't going to be as attractive or be in as much control over what they want or who they are still becoming

and this can carry over when you get older because older guys are more set and more mature than the guys your age it's a fact that girls mature faster than boys but that doesn't mean an older guy is better for you. really there are alot of guys that can be mature in your own age group but usually they don't stand out as much becuase it's not 'cool' to be mature.

i've always liked younger guys. normally they respect you more if your older because of the same reasons you may like an older guy. they are usually so happy to be with you and they think they can't do better.

but with any age there are guys that will either respect you and work hard to stay with you and the other half think that you should only respect them and work hard to stay with them because they are such a catch.

the hard part is finding the guy, weather older or younger, that does respect you and want to be with you and you treating him right because you are both equal in a relationship

but yea me = younger guys, not quite a couger but i like guys about a year or two younger than me


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

most girls are into older guys because of our instincts. you're a female, which means you like to feel protected and inferior, you like to have that manly character who you feel safe with... and you tend to be able to find that a lot easier in older guys.

also, girls and guys mature at different rates... you're 14, right? at that time in your life, guys your age are, for the most part, pretty immature :P

you definitely are a very inquisitive young girl, a deeper thinker... i'm like that too. i've always been an old soul.

i know what you're looking for, you're looking for someone who thinks like you.. someone who can understand you, and you may not neccessarily find that in someone older.

don't date someone who is more than 2 years older!! later in life, it won't be as big of a deal, but when you're 14 (as Im assuming you are...) even 2 years can be quite a gap.

and again, you are 14 year old girl. don't be LOOKING for guys, let them come to YOU.


jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

I am also very mature and would rather have an older/more mature boyfriend. Cuz even though I like it when people make me laugh I don't like it when they act stupid. It's kind of a natural insticnt to want an older guy but you know maybe not that old.


gee_jade says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

thanks :D


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

hahaha! girl, you definitely do not fall under "cougar" category!! I'd say hot mama! yeah that fits you more...

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