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gee_jade asked:

19 Aug 2009

he played with me!!! i am so!!! me please what do i do?

okay, this guy and his gf broke up coz the girl's parents didn't want him, so he courted me yesterday and now i find out everything was all a lie?!?! wtf?!?! and i can't believe i fell for it!!! everything seemed so real! when i asked if he was serious he txted "try to think! if i'm not serious...then why do i keep wasting my time...telling you that i love you?" i wanted to cry but i can't. i was so confused but he finally gave up. he said he doesn't have any feelings for me and he still loves her and don't wanna lose her........said it was all a lie and that he's sorry........he called me a bitch for leaning my head on his lap when we were sitting on a sofa, and i called him an asshole and much more. btw, he also said i was a low class mammal. "easy to get? more like easy to forget!" he also said that while i was all calm and i forgave him and we're friends again but deep inside it kinda hurts. what do i do? he's a player and he won't change and it bugs me!!! he also he also apologized though, especially for what he did. he said was just challenged coz he heard that i'm hard to get. and i can't believe we've known each other for four years and he did this to me..............ah!!!!!! i just wanna give up on love completely. there seems to be no right guy for me. almost everyone has their partners but me!!! maybe i'll just skip prom next year so i won't feel out of place. everyone should get dates but me. hmph!!! (sighs) but we're kinda okay now. awkward, angry okay. but seriously i'm about to give up!!! any advie on being single forever? or should i keep my hopes up that my guy will come soon? i am so confused and i told him love has burned me once and i don't want it to happen again.....but here he is, tearing me apart little by little...................~_~



crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 19 Aug 2009

oh my gosh i feel so sorry for u

i would also be mad girl

but try to ask him why he did that to u and why he is such an asshole

boys are so .......

but when he called u a bitch i would realy talk to him and try to figure out why he cheated!!!

i really hope it helps....



nana_0601 says:

Posted on 19 Aug 2009

no, i wouldn't do that. Look, don't be one to run back to a guy. That, to me is...weak. If he would say those things about you then, he doesn't care about you or your feelings. Why would he do that? A simple thing called rebound maybe or maybe he was just trying to get over it, by getting someone else, who just so happened to be you. Don't talk with him , what's there to say? I'm sure you could do a whole lot better than someone who treats you like that lies to you, and calls you a bitch and whatnot. Just continue living, get over him, you're young, quit whining about love, when it happens, it will. All you have to do, is look gorgeous on the outside, be smart on the inside, and be one step ahead. Don't chase after the guys, let them chase after you, Place yourself in a higher regard.

Frankly tho', i would torture that guy mentally , not talk to him, not look at him, look gorgeous everyday and secretly be like "pshh yeah, this is what you lost" Don't go after every guy that says he likes you a very high percentage of the time it's a lie that's coming out of their mouth. If he likes you, then he'll show you how much he does, by the little things he does and say. (frankly i think i'm mean, i like to toy with them : if he likes you , he'll keep coming back to you, no need to chase him around) ONCE A CHEATER , ALWAYS A CHEATER. you can't change a guy, they can only want to change themselves, and if he's a cheater, then , he's immature and not ready to change now. Give it time, you have plenty, you're young. LIVE ! Have fun!! Don't be all boy crazy or you'll only end up a wreck.

Think about it, you don't want to be eyeing all the guys you see, you want ALL EYES on YOU. but that's not going to happen if one, you don't cheer up and get over this boy (which you can do better than really) and stop thinking about it in the way of everyone having a partner instead of you.

Not every relationship you see will last, not everyone you see is happy, but you, you now have choices and options, you can totally own next year, as long as you think of yourself as someone who deserves the best. He truly has to be worthy of you , and until you can find a guy like that, everyone else are losers. lol


ahroarah says:

Posted on 19 Aug 2009

you're young. enjoy life. love isn't all that its cracked up to be. it's not like the movies. it takes maturity and patience. just take a chill pill and go out with your friends.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 21 Aug 2009

when you stop looking for a great guy that's when they start looking for you

sorry but he's a butt and you're a lil young

you don't need friends who see you as a 'toy' and a 'challange' in that way

you need to not fall all into boys most of them aren't going to be wourth your time at this age anyway. bro's before hoes girl

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