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gee_jade asked:

16 May 2010

crushes! part 2

ok so i did some research about adult males and minor females, wow 0_o, i didn't know so many people found it sick, is it? should i just let it go? what do you think about it? i dnt have any sexual intentions about a relationship so i can't get him in trouble right? please help me i need it so bad right now



billieprox says:

Posted on 16 May 2010

i think you should drop it,personally. if you were like...i dont 16 or 17 and he was 20 that's a little less taboo but you're only 14. you can't even drive yet and he's one year away from being able to drink (legally). and just because you dont have any sexual intentions doesnt mean he doesnt.

thats just my opinion though! you dont have to listen to me if you dont want to.


juicystar07 says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

if i was your friend in real life, i don't think i would want to hang out with you (i'm sorry it was harsh. i hope you don't take offense). i'm one of those people who is against younger girls dating much MUCH older guys. it doesn't mean that you can't admire him from afar, but please PLEASE don't go out with him.


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

you're still a kid! so be a kid! you don't need an older guy... it will never turn out in the end. if you were unbelievably mature and an old soul, maybe it would be understand... my sister is 15 and her bf, 21, but she's also an old soul... and honestly, everyone thinks of her and looks at her as 21... we never think of her as actually 15...

but i think you and i both know that you are not like that :) you are a normal girl, and you should stick to guys your age for now

you are VERY naive, and that's not meant to be an insult, it's just TRUTH... a 21 year old or even a 19 year old would expect you to be giving everything a girl HIS age would give him, but you cant... because you're NOT that age, so he would frequently become frustrated with you

you cant drink, you cant drive, you cant party, and you still have to follow your parents rules, and you cant mess around with him... so why waste your time just to be 'cool' or feel an immature sense of satisfaction?


barbipixi says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

if you guys don't have sex he can't legaly get in trouble but yea if he wanted any kind of adult life he wouldn't be able to bring you around his adult friends because most adults think that you shouldn't date kids. so he would have to keep it secret and relationships aren't built on secrets. sorry but if i were you i'd look for someone closer to your age. it's fine to think he's hot and admire him but i wouldn't try to date him.


gee_jade says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

thanks for your answer ^_^ i liked it very much


gee_jade says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

thanks XD


gee_jade says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

i guess your friend's lucky that guy's a keeper ^_^ but as long as there's love the couple shouldn't really care right?


billieprox says:

Posted on 19 May 2010

no problem!

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