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gee_jade asked:

15 May 2010

crushes!

ok guys i've got a confession to make.., it's not just lawrence (talented swimmer) i like.., i know two's a lot for one summer but there's this other guy.., older of course, that i've recently started to crush on too.., i dnt know his name but, he's an instructor and a life guard there, he's in his 20's i guess, is he too old?

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shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

well, if you're just 14, and he is in his 20's, then, he is a bit old for you. and I suppose that's illegal in most countries haha.

well, there's nothing wrong with just having a crush on them. when I was 14, I kinda liked half boys that I knew (a bit exaggerating now lol), but at the end, it remained a crush and nothing more (but okay I was shy). so it's okay if you're JUST crushing on a 20 year old instructor, but it would be a problem if you started something with him.

juicystar07

juicystar07 says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

well, i would suggest that you only date guys that are 2 years older or younger than you, especially when you're in your teens. 2 years ago, i had a crush on my ski instructor. he was 24 and i was 13. he could get charged for something if he made out with you. i think he's too old for you right now. sorry. :((

illusion

illusion says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

i don't really see how it's so bad. like you say, age is just a number. if you think you're mature enough and he feels the same way, go for it. could be the love of your life. (;

lorii_grace

lorii_grace says:

Posted on 17 May 2010

age is just a number..

ha.

not when you're 14. it can make ALL the difference

you can lust after the 20 year old, but you need to work to understand your feelings and decipher whether you're lusting after someone, crushing, or truly interesting and into them... you also need to know your intentions. why do you feel that way about them? what makes you feel that way? do you like feeling that way? is it worth it? is it reasonable? try and look at things from ways OTHER than your own perspective. something you see as normal might be crazy to most other people, and vice versa.

when i was like, 12 i think it was... i had a crush on my sisters swimming teacher. he was 21, and since i always looked a lot older than i was, he hit on me a little bit (: but that's okay! it's innocent flirting, and its okay to crush... just know that you DONT NEED TO GO AFTER EVERY GUY YOU HAVE AN INTEREST IN. some things are just there as simple pleasures, and aren't meant to be anything more

:) kay? hope that helps...

gee_jade

gee_jade says:

Posted on 15 May 2010

i know there's gonna be a problem, i read it a lot on yahoo asnwers but what i dnt get is why? i mean age is just a number right?

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