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gee_jade asked:

20 May 2010

can someone explain this to me? it's wierd and i dnt like it

remember one of y previous questions where i said even though the moment's happy there's something inside me that's refraining me from being happy? it's back.., and now i'm bombed that tomorrow's the last day o swimming lessons, last time to see him (for now i guess) anyway, i dnt know just feel like i have to do something for the rest of the summer to be happy, i can never seem to enjoy some moments i dnt know what's wrong with me

ok so i watched kung fu panda and the part where the turtle told the panda some advice applies to me he said, "you are too concerned about what was and what will be. there is a saying, yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery but today is a gift, that is why it is called the present"

it struck me but i still cnt pinpoint what it is, like when i fall asleep midafternoon and wake up and the sky is already dark, i feel like i've missed out on a lot, even when watching a movie in a cinema it's dark in tehre right and we start watching midafternoon we go out and it's almost closing time (around 8 or 9) and i can never seem to think that i enjoyed the movie strsightly because part of me was sad coz i felt like i've missed something and it's night time already although i love th night and running under the moon (wierd but that's just me lol) and i dnt know what to do what to think what to feel i'm just so confused i dnt know who i should be, who i should be with, what i should do gosh this even sometimes drives me to the point of crying i'm losing myself and i dnt see a hero anywhere who can save me from this unknown 'thing' going on with me please help me! i need it majorly! :(



_riah_ says:

Posted on 20 May 2010

Well love, it sounds like you are growing up. As much of a cliche as it may sound, you are not alone here. These feelings are very normal.

You are figuring yourself out and who you are. This can be extremely tough...becuase so many things are changing, not only you..but everyone else you know.

I suggest that you really think about what kind of person you want to be. You also need to find some things you enjoy doing with your activities coming to an end, to keep you busy. Focus on what makes you happy and then in time it will be easier to realize the joy that these things bring you. Try not to dwell dear, I fear it only makes the burden heavier.

Life is a beautiful thing, but no one said growing up and growing into your own would be easy. I know it was not so easy for me, as a ton of girls on here could also say. I wish you the best of luck! Things do perk up, I promise. You are young, have fun and get to know yourself!




lorii_grace says:

Posted on 25 May 2010

Guess what missy, you're growing up!! Riah is so right. That's completely normal for you to feel that way, and as time wears on you will begin to understand what you are feeling more and more, and you may start to feel that way more and more.

It's important that you recognize things for what they are - just because you are feeling something you don't understand doesn't mean it's wrong or bad or weird or not normal, it's just there for you to explore. Don't assume the worst, but also work through it and feel free to talk to a friend or mentor about how you feel.

Right now, focus on just ... living. You don't have to label everything, pinpoint everything, or categorize them either... you can just keep moving through life, not rushing through, of course, but keeping yourself busy because life is too short to sit around and waste time!!


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