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gbpkid asked:

25 Jun 2009

my boyfriend & i. {help argh}

i have been with my boyfriend for almost two months, for the first month and a bit it was really good, however recently he has become incredibly paranoid, and untrusting, this leads to him accusing me of cheating and stuff etc, which of course leads to arguments (ive never cheated on him), this causes my friends (especially my best friend) to dislike him (a lot), because he does upset me when we argue. Three days a go we hada row and it ended in us both deciding that we couldnt be together. However, i was absolutely distraught and i was crying my eyes out, a lot. (oh dear). Three hours later he called me, and all he said was "ive made a mistake, come over", now it was like midnight, so i walk round to his, and he just goes into how he just idnt wana not be with me. so we got back together, however now, im wondering weather we should be together, and weather i got walked all over. What is your oppinion on my relationship? what do you think i should do?

(SORRY ABOUT THE AMMOUNT THERE IS TO READ.)

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fairy16

fairy16 says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

listen to your heart if he is bad with you just stay away from him /:)

adazilla

adazilla says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

there's always kinks in a relationship, no matter how perfect it may seem.



Truthfully, if you really liked him, you should keep trying. Who knows? Maybe it was a one time thing, but if this continues, it may be a problem.



There's a bunch of things you could do to let him know you're not cheating on him or anything. Every once in a while you could send him a text saying you miss him, or you're thinking about him, just to reassure him. Or you could tell him about what you did during the day. You don't have to go into specific details, just give him a summary.



I'm not an expert on your relationship with him and your friends. But if I were you, I'd take into consideration what your friend is saying. They only want the best for you. Best of luck to you sweetheart!

amaay

amaay says:

Posted on 25 Jun 2009

just take it one step at a time, if you take it slow, you could get to know each other better, and learn how each others feelings work, and what upsets him and you and what doesn't, and so on. :]

ask yourself and brainstorm: why you and him fell out, maybe take it from there and fix the pieces back together agaain. [;

x

rachelsauras

rachelsauras says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2009

I wouldn't give up on the relationship just yet.

with a little work it could go back to the way it used to be.

but it could also get worse.:(

you shouldn't have to be accused of something you

didn't do, and have to convince him you did nothing.

and it seems like since you went back to him he thinks

he may be able to get away with some stuff because

you're "dependent" on him or somethinn.



it's really up to you to decide though.

but do you really wanna fight for something that

leaves you upset and confused?

:(





x

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2009

seriously he's got issues and until he gets over that (if he can even) your relationship will never be what it should be.



breaking down is easy when breaking up but it will make you stronger if that's what you have to do



if he does it again you might have to listen to your gut instead of your heart. he's a jelous guy and if he can't get over the fact that he has a great girl that loves him and is there for him then he doesn't diserve you anyway



there are lots of guys out there so if he can't get better just remember there will be another one

chloebabeess

chloebabeess says:

Posted on 26 Jun 2009

No wonder he thinks your cheating , Your GORGEOUS :D , But tell him straight your going to have to trust me or i dont think we'l work out, But remember friends or forever , Bf's will go. So i say just listen to your heart and your friends :thumbup:

dominique

dominique says:

Posted on 28 Jun 2009

uhm thats how it was with me and my boyfriend wen we first got together. i just flat out said. believe wat u want. i kno whats the truth and its ur fault if u dont believe me. and he apoligized and weve been together 3 years now. hope this helped and gave u hope

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