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fulltimepinklady asked:

15 Dec 2009

I am such a selfish person

This is selfish of me to complain about, but two out of my three closest friends just got engaged and the other one is about to be engaged. plus two of them have been dating their guy less time than i have. one girl a year and and one girl about eight months. I'm all about dating a long time and being able to support myself financially before i am married but my bf has never even dropped the love word yet and its been over two years. it sux balls truth be told and i know i should be thankful i have a good bf and he's not the kind to rush into things and say stuff until he really really means it-its tough to celebrate for someone else when I've put in way more time and effort into mine because he's kinda exhausting. i like him to death (i wont say the love word either) and truth be told i dont really wanna be married yet, but it'd be nice to know if it was gonna come before i'm 30 and almost infertile. just complaining, sorry in advance. i just feel bad i'm not happier for my friends

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lily_billy

lily_billy says:

Posted on 15 Dec 2009

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hmm i dont get it if you wont say it why do you want him to say it?

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 15 Dec 2009

I understand... one of my close friends got married a year ago. I was engaged but I broke it off..(he was not the one for me). Now I have had this great boyfriend for almost 2 years. I can understand how you are feeling bc you see your friend getting engaged and sometimes you think to yourself, " how or when for me?" I think this too...sometimes I wonder what my boyfriend thinks....bc the love that I feel with him and everything is so incredible. I do not even know if he wants to get married...he has never mentioned it...sooo i wonder. As for your case bc yours has not said the big L-Word... does he tell his parents that he loves them when he talks to them? See mine does so I am thinking maybe my Bf is more comfortable saying it bc he says it more often. Maybe your BF is more reserved.....but i do understand that you would want to hear it. ( Like, "throw me a bone here...." ) You are not being selfish. Sometimes I watch those Wedding shows and think how sweet their boyfriends are and sometimes I sit there and think, ' aww I wish my bf would do that!' . You know I have never ever ever gotten flowers from my bf. He has also never bought a present for me , 'just because I was thinking of you'... type present. I get mine all sorts of things. oh well.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Dec 2009

lol my mom had my baby sister at 37 : P then she got fixed you'll be fine if you wait



but make sure you guys are going toward that you dont want to just be in a relationship that's comfortable and there's no love. do you snuggle and can't wait to see him when you get home?



cause damn after two years you guys should be able to sit down and talk about the future. you don't have to say "hey i want to get enguaged' but ask him do you want kids someday? how does he feel about a savings plan? what about religion are you guys the same on that?



i already told my bf that i want a second child before i'm 30. and he said he wants a child too. so that works. and he want's to be married before that happens and i'm good with that. and i told him we both have to have steady jobs first too : P



we know we love eachother and are perment fixtures so we know we have nothing to worry about it's going to happen and we have a plan : P

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 15 Dec 2009

I could have written this about mine! never ever flowers or anything thoughtful and i always get him stuf and he's just liek "aw cool thanks"...he is very reserved. I am glad to hear someone else is dating an oblivious guy (although i wish you the best) thanks for commenting

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 16 Dec 2009

thats what i want- a plan, not action right now, but def need to know we are on teh same page thanks

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