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19 Nov 1989

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freddyisagirl asked:

27 Nov 2011

Am i over-thinking?

okay so last night i went with my best friends to a club and meant some guys who graduated from our school a few years ago (they were ages 18-20) and we had a good time talking and stuff. as soon as we got home, my friends immediately said: Omg, they were all over you! ( talking about two guys, both 20 and hothothot) I dont know if its the truth i meant sure we talked alot but i dont know if they were interested....i mean no one ever has been...i mean i havent even had my first kiss! Im 16 btw.

Am i overthinking this?

Helpp xx



inside_out says:

Posted on 27 Nov 2011

I agree that you might be overthinking this (if you've got those warnings going off in your head, they're probably true)... One of the things about being a teenager is your hormones... if you think a guy likes you you might start thinking about him a lot and then assuming things and then BLAH it just turns into a mess. It's just what girls do. This is what I do to sort through it... I'll do it with your situation.
1) Find the truth in what's going on - you went to a club and had a fun time with some guys
2) Figure out what's bothering you about it - they were hot... and your friends said they were into you
3) Figure out what you're going to do about it - Yes, they were hot, you had a fun time, and they might have been "all over you." But what are you going to do about it? Like you said... they could be four years older than you (age gaps are BAD when still in teens). I know the feeling when a guy is cute and you get those fluttery butterflies... but just ask yourself... 'What am I going to DO about it?' If you want to pursue this, than go ahead. If you want to forget about it, that's fine too. It's up to you.
God Bless :)


rissxoxo says:

Posted on 28 Nov 2011

your not over thinking it at all! you got to live your life its not like you were doing anything bad! enjoy yourself!


dragana94 says:

Posted on 28 Nov 2011

Look,just have fun.It doesn't matter if u haven't had your first kiss..Guys can still find u hot,pretty,funny..etc.etc..Enjoy the moment,but like inside_out said,u have to ask yourself in some point what do u want with them..U have to be always a little bit careful when it comes with older boys..4 is older,but not that bad,just u have to know what do u want.But for now just have fun,talk to the and enjoy :P


aquasm926 says:

Posted on 03 Dec 2011

just live your life its not like you were doing anything bad!!!
and have fun


freddyisagirl says:

Posted on 27 Nov 2011

Thank you so much x


inside_out says:

Posted on 28 Nov 2011


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