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foreverunforgotten asked:

05 Apr 2011

Help me, don't judge me..

So two days ago I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. There was protection! and he told his old counselor so he'd have someone to talk to about it. Because neither of us want to tell our parents. and I haven't found anybody I can talk to about it that won't tell my mom or dad. What do I do? What happens when I'm in the doctors office with my mom and the doctor asks if I'm sexually active? If I send her out of the room its obvious. But I can't not tell the doctor.. Also..

When will it stop hurting? hah. Spare me the sex talk. Please don't try and convince me into not having sex again. Or telling my parents. because I most definitely will not. But pleassse help me.

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amberreed95

amberreed95 says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

Well, i think u need a good friend who wont tell ur parents until ur ready. Ur parents do have a right to know but that doesnt mean they tell them that should be something u tell ur parents not a friend. Ur parents will have to find out sooner or later and telling them sooner will help prevent things like pregnancy and such things. also if they dont know and u did get pregnant how would u tell them. U cant go without telling them because then that wouldnt be good for the baby because u wouldnt be getting the proper nutriants. Its very nervewrecking nowing u have to tell u parents but once its done it done. Once u do tell them then u will have to go get a papsmear done and then whent hey test to make sure everything down there is ok. I just think that for now that u n boyfriend could talk about it until ur ready to tell ur parents

gosupermodel_is_back

gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

They don't do "virginity tests" here anymore, unless your parents are taking you to some quack who recently immigrated from a backward nation and brought his misogyny and ignorance with him.

No doctor in the United States would cooperate with this. There are privacy laws. The doctor will not lie for you, but he will simply refuse to do what your parents want, or tell them anything.

ninja_nikki

ninja_nikki says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

Don't you have one good friend that won't tell your parents? Well....when I'm at the doctor's office they specifically have the parent leave the room and then they ask you questions like that. So you shouldn't have to ask your mom to leave, the doctor will. And of course the doctor will not tell your mom anything....unless if it has something to do with suicide or harming other people. Should stop hurting in a few days, first time is always the most painful (or so I've been told...lol, still a virgin here!). :)

anjelcakes

anjelcakes says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

If you don't want it to be obvious when you go to the doctor, simply tell your mom that she doesn't have to be in the back with you, that it won't take you long. If you want to tell someone and you can't trust your most personal friends find and online buddy :) one that lives far away tht doesn't know your parent(s).

sliq

sliq says:

Posted on 06 Apr 2011

usually the doctor takes the parents out on purpose because many don't tell the truth with their parents around ;) and it depends on how deep it he put it in xD it could last 3 days just like it could last an hour.. good luck :)

gosupermodel_is_back

gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

But to prevent any further trouble you must avoid these stuiped things!

gosupermodel_is_back

gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 05 Apr 2011

But to prevent any further trouble you must avoid these stuiped things!

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