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foreverunforgotten asked:

22 Mar 2011

Boyfriend Issues..

So Kody came over last night, and we were alone.

He has a purity ring, he wants to stay pure. I plan on staying a virgin at least until I graduate. But last night.. woaah.

Our hormones took over. I mean.. clothes stayed on.. but there was a lot of friction..

and he was deff hard.. like I could feel it.. and we were shaking.. a lot.

Then Kody said that he had never wished he hadn't had that ring on more..

it made me worry a bit.. like I didn't know what to do.

I want him to keep thing ring on. stay pure. I want to stay a virgin. and I really don't want him to think about ditching the ring.

I didn't know if I should keep going like.. making out.. or if I shouldve stopped so he could calm down..

what do i do next time? should i talk to him?

do you think that informing him that my birth control is only 10mg and wouldnt keep me from getting pregnant would help at all?

I'm so lost..



wishwater says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2011

Stay pure. Both of you. Why because your young sex complicates things. Plus once your parents know your having sex and they will find out they'll spaz. So just relax on the making out and hot and heavy stuff for a while but still show your affection in cute ways not sexual.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2011

so you're a virgin.. no offense hun, but what's the birth control for?

and to answer your question, you two should avoid making out intensely. i know that ain't easy, but i guess that would be the only way to keep things under control. Pick light casual places for going out on dates. . It will always be tempting get intimate with each other, so if you can, try not to be alone together in secluded places.


amberreed95 says:

Posted on 25 Mar 2011

yes u should talk to him tell him u care for him and u dont want to see his virginity go to waste tell him ur not ready and he should respect that. But u are allowed to make out (thats not sex) but only as long as u can control how far everything hoes. I would hate to see u throw away something so precious. Im glad that u have morals and that you would like to wait. u should sit down and talk to him about how u would like to wait just in case if this happen because loosing it should be to someone special and at a special moment


foreverunforgotten says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2011

Uhm, yeah. I think I said that i wanted to stay pure, and for him to stay pure.. the decision on whether or not I should stay pure wasn't part of my question..


foreverunforgotten says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2011

I have endometriosis. and my obgyn put me on birth control to make the periods more manageable.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 22 Mar 2011

oh I see. I had a friend with the same problem, and she was put on birth control too.


wishwater says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2011

Honestly if I'm telling you to stay pure it means that birth control shouldn't be an issue so because I'm trying to tell you not to have sex at all. If you really wanted to stay pure you wouldn't be on the subject of birth control. So perhaps you just want to have sex and not get pregnant. Even if you did tell him about the birth control he's going to look at you like thats your business, I don't know what I should do with this info.

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