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"round here, something radiates.... Round here, we all look the same." Round Here, Counting Crows

15 Sep 1998


"There are those people that you just can't deal with. Then there are those people with qualities that might not be the greatest, but you love them anyways. Those ones we call friends."

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firefox_12 asked:

30 Oct 2010

Hey you beautiful people do you have any tips on forgetting a past love to start a new relationship?

Yeah, the past love is the guy I was asking about before. He's going out with someone different now and forgot about me. I'm ok with that. He was a little jerk like.

So I went to our school's halloween dance, and it was less than I expected but that's beside the point. Slow dancing kindof scares me a little bit, especially if I'm just standing around. And, even if some of you disagree, I prefer to slow dance with a guy than one of my friends. I did that, it's nice. We're both single... at the time, and I just asked him because he looked lonely.

And he was reeeaally cute. His name's Cole and Matt is my ex. They're both a grade older than I am.

So we slow danced a couple more songs, mainly because neither of us really had a partner. Then he asked me out, I don't know why, but he did and I said yes.

I want to forget about Matt. That seems a lil impossible right now, but I'm sure it is. In some different universe.

So, any suggestions? Help would be greatly appreciated.



sena95 says:

Posted on 30 Oct 2010

You will forget about him , dont worry , you jus need time , and when the time comes , i hope you choose a good guy and not make the same mistake :) and this guy probably asked you becuz he liked you and wanted to know more about you , before he makes a move , so dont let him cross the line , and talk to him as a friend ,and then decide if you want him to be your bf or not ! :)


gosupermodel_is_back says:

Posted on 30 Oct 2010

Forget about him- he has moved on so should you!

Like u said he was a jerk,,, so why waste time on him when you've got a new guy to look forward to?

Gud luck =)


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 01 Nov 2010

try focusing more on this new guy Cole. he could turn out to be your new romance, who knows? It will take awhile to be completely over Matt, but you can always get to know other guys while at it. ;)


auri says:

Posted on 01 Nov 2010

Hun, if he was a jerk then he's not worth it. Obviously you deserve SO much better and've found someone :)

Don't even bother getting around or involved with him, focus on your man now and if he ever decides to come around apologizing or something, don't take it from him.

He might get jealous seeing you with your new guy, be happy. Even if he's around don't get tense or even act uncomfortable, smile and show him you're happy with this guy.

Hold your head up high and smile anyways :) I'm sure your boyfriend would rather see you smile than frown.

That guys old news, leave him in your past and look forward.

Good luck girly,



fathima says:

Posted on 02 Nov 2010

Hey yeah as every one said he is not wirthy for you.

I recommend you to do meditation. it will help to ease your pain.

BTW guuud luck. :thumbup:


firefox_12 says:

Posted on 30 Oct 2010

Thank you thank you thank you you both have helped. I'll do the best I can, cross my heart. I know love doesn't come easy, wish it did. Thanks.



firefox_12 says:

Posted on 05 Nov 2010

Thank you. Honestly, I think that all I needed was a few more days of pointedly not thinking about Matt. Focusing is one thing I've never been great at, but it's come in handy. I got so much wonderful help and advice from you all here... Thank you, again. I don't think I could ever thank you enough, it seemed so apocalyptic if I couldn't move on.

But there I go again, making a mountain out of a molehill.

Love's tough. I know that, we all do, I think. You all have so many great things to say, makes it seem like love's worth it once in a while and it is. :) thanks.

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