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"round here, something radiates.... Round here, we all look the same." Round Here, Counting Crows

15 Sep 1998


"There are those people that you just can't deal with. Then there are those people with qualities that might not be the greatest, but you love them anyways. Those ones we call friends."

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firefox_12 asked:

17 Nov 2010

he's using me for his game-- you all were right. And now I finally know the truth.

Yah-- my ex bf... Kept telling me he loved me and then he hated me, loved me, hated me, back and forth like that, and he got stuck on hate me. I asked what was up and he texted me about it, and I quote: "Well heres the thing: after the break up i never liked you and you did so i am trying to shake you off and not like me anymore so I am building you up and tearing you down cause i hate you that's why now dont even think about me cause here is no chance of getting back together and this whole time ive been lying this whole time..."

That's exactly what he said, along with some other things. I cried and he didn't see. He said that's what he does to exes. I probably didn't react too well, started swearing at him actually, through texting after school, but it still hurts and it shouldn't because he's a jerk, but it does and it feels like I'm being torn apart from something eating away at me frome the inside. What should I do? Ideas and advice would be appreciated. Thank you.



sena95 says:

Posted on 17 Nov 2010

Another playboy , another asshole , another dick head . There is no difference , he wanted to play , and you fell for it , just like other girls did. You shouldn't really be hurt, you shouldn't care , ignoring him would be the least thing to do to him. But if you want revenge, well you should show that bastard that you didn't care about him , and you never did, and you never will. tell him that he wasn't worth you, tell him you were playing with him too. I can't believe how cruel, how insensitive boys can be ! it drives me insane , especially that you cried , why did you cry? ha ? you didn't love him, you loved the guy he was pretending to be. He doesn't even know what real love is , and he will never know. Ignore him - Find yourself a nice friend - be careful next time don't fall for them easily- and be a free strong woman. Let him know that a guy like him , s*hit like him , won't be worth a drop of your tears , and don't feel bad about yourself, you should learn from your mistake, you should walk with your head to the sky. Girls are sensitive i know that , but when girls want to forget a guy, they do it , we are talking about will power babe. He wasn't real, he was fake , full of bullshits . I just feel so mad that you are sad because of what he did to you, it was obvious that he is a playboy! he was just looking for a girl to fool . and it is okay , i have been a fool before , but now am sure that i will never ever be fooled again . Not all guys are like this, but they are very few, and hard to find. Be a strong girl, if you want to play, then play but don't ever be the one who is played with. Sweety i hope i wasn't harsh , but i have to tell you, that this is life, you will face many like him, but in the end the right guy will show up. It is just the beginning by the way i want you to buy this novel - Lady Boss - Jackie Collins - i read it , and the character Lucky is a very strong, powerful girl. I really wish that you'd buy it , and you'd read it ., and you'd learn from her. Need anything more, feel free to send me messages , cause you seem like a nice innocent girl.


firefox_12 says:

Posted on 17 Nov 2010

Don't worry, you were'nt harsh. That was exactly what I needed. I needed to hear the things i knew but didn't know I knew, I needed to hear someone else call him names besides me, I needed someone to say I was right to verify that I am. Thank you. I suppose i was sad at the loss of the person he was... I really loved that person. It pisses me off that he lied to me, probably more than the truth finally coming out. It's a step in the right direction, forgetting about him. Thank you.

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