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"round here, something radiates.... Round here, we all look the same." Round Here, Counting Crows

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"There are those people that you just can't deal with. Then there are those people with qualities that might not be the greatest, but you love them anyways. Those ones we call friends."

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 7 years

Friends with benefits? Is this an unhealthy relationship(s)?

Matt's my best friend, i put all my confidence in him. We're both lonely, but not in love. We ended up kissing yesterday; not hardcore, but he really liked it and i'm just wondering if this is a bad thing before it has the chance to happen again. He likes my body. He's attracted to me, but it's miles from a meaninful relationship. Quite frankly, i don't share the same attraction for him. It's not just me and matt. I have two long distance close friends, an ex that i'm still falling for, and a movie date with Josh for friday night. I keep thinking time is the answer, but clearly not. How do i juggle these? Is it healthy? Can i do it without being called things such as slut, bitch, whore, etc? (it is important for me to retain dignity&class in a social standing) Can i avoid hurting feelings/egos? Where to turn? Thanks.. Love yall:):)

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 7 years

What am i doing?

Yesterday i would have told you Matt was my best friend. Yesterday i would have said i'm still head over heels for my long lost ex. Yesterday i would have told you that dating anyone right now simply wasn't an option for me. Well... That was yesterday. Today, i played piano and Matt sits down on the bench next to me. He says something but i can't hear it and i give him a nice old hug just because i feel like it. "i take that as a yes" he said. And my brain just stops working. Now what did i just agree to? It says. I don't know what i'm doing, but i just keep hanging on to him... And he kissed me! And i'm going -----what.....?------- He's a bad kisser too:/ i can't help compare him to the relationship i had before, which felt so right and so beautiful and pure. I feel like i'm completely lying when i say "i love you too" and i know i am because i still love my ex and he still loves me.. And the only thing i can do is think of Matt as my best friend. Still. All my love to u girls :D

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 7 years

Here's a story. Help me finish the end of it?

Characters, male: Matt, Leighton, Blake Characters, female: me, Lakin Here's how my story goes. Leighton dated Lakin (my best friend) in the summer. He loved me, so he broke up with Lakin for some dumb reason. Leighton dated me in the fall, for 4 and a half months. The thing he never told me was that he still loved Lakin. Just recently, he broke up with me to go out with her. He stil likes me and I still love this kid. He is the greatest guy i've ever met. In this case, the saying "you aren't what you do" applies very well. I have a feeling that he and Lakin may not stay together long, and i know that if they break up he will come back to me. My question is do i say yes? Matt and Blake are some of my best friends. Matt plays the trombone with me, and Blake is a kid even though he's about a year older than me. Matt is going through a streak of where he's decided he's going to ignore me to see if i'll play his game or not. He's kind of a kid too. Blake likes me. I haven't talked to Matt In four days, so i don't know what's going on with him. (i dated Matt at one point) Maybe this is something i shouldn't be confused about but i am; how do i finish the story?

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 7 years

Please help me! I dunno what to do about this guy! I need to get my life together.

So my one of my best friends, Blake, just asked me out. I don't like him like that but he is just the sweetest guy ever. So good to me. I might say yes in the future, but not now because i'm still pretty broken over my last breakup. I can't handle another relationship at the moment and if i could, i don't know if i'd say yes even then. Can you please give me some nice words that i can say to him without Totally crushing him Bitching Being stupid Driving him away Saying that i'll say yes later Please... Anything but those five things. I'm drawing a blank on what to tell him. Thank you so much!! Love you lots. :)

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

about 8 years

How can you tell if you're really seeing the truth with him.. or is he lying?

He treats me well; respects me and has never tried anything racy with me. He introduced his parents like this: "Caitlin, this is Mom. Mom, Caitlin. Caitlin, Dad. Dad, Caitlin." I still don't know his parents' real names:) I thought that was cute. He wore a full suit to school the day of his grandfather's funeral instead of changing into it when he went. He calls me just to talk every night, whether he's busy or not. He's been my best friend since I first knew his name and he knows me better than I know me. He spends his free time working on cars He loves me like no one else had loved me before. Talks about getting married and all.. And he seems to be the one. Really truly, I am in love. And I want to know--How do you tell if this is really him? I don't know how he could be lying but I really don't want to get hurt by him because he is the reason for me living and once he's gone... Well. You know.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 8 years

nerves? gotta ask this guy out or it will be the END OF THE WORLD (a little melodromatic, i guess)

In short, i feel opressed because I can't get over my goddang nerves about asking this amazing, wonderful, wonderfully SINGLE guy out that I realy like and he's one of those guys who really knows how to treat a girl right. Advice NOW, please??? Thank you sooo much

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

over 8 years

What is the best state to live in in all of the U.S. of A? and why?

So I've been to a lot of states. Arizona Colorado Florida Illinois Kansas Michigan Minnesota Missouri New Mexico South Dakota Iowa and of course, good old Wisconsin. But since I don't live in any state exept my own, I don't know what the atmosphere is like in any of them and i don't know what the community is like in any of them. I've really been thinking about where I want to live when I grow up and get married. I was thinking North or South Carolina, Maine, Alaska, Georgia, or Virginia. Or any other state, really. I just wanted to know your opinions. Thanks!

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

new guy...

So there's this new guy at our school. My grade.. his name's Austin and he's super cute. I mean, not average cute, super cute. He's really quiet and really good at badminton and overall a really nice guy. I think he's into me. I'm pretty positive. ????? I don't want to freak him out by being all buddy-buddy cause that would just be really weird and stuff. So, what do you say? Curious. :) oh and plus I just want to know of what you girls think of the situation here. it's not like I like him or anything. He just makes me curious.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

teen suicide

So we had a whole day on every single teacher giving lectures and worksheets on this. Teen suicide, stemming from bullying. Two of our teachers burst into tears in front of the whole Jr. High (which is by the way only about 140 kids in 2 grades) and there was a 1 1/2 hour presentation on bulling prevention and teen suicide. Youtube videos were included. The one was 9 minutes and it was about the suicide of Kristina Calco, who was a beautiful, talented, smart athletic girl who was relentlessly bullied into suicide. We head the stories of other teens, and kids who hadn't even reached that age yet. This just made me wonder, how much does this really occur in the world? There was also the story of a boy who had a yellow Corvet that he had lovingly restored to perfection and because of something (i havent read the story in a while and i lent the book to my teacher. It's in Chicken Noodle Soup for the Teenage Soul, if you were wondering) and he was very depressed. So, sitting at night in his car, he shot himself. A few minutes too late, his friends and family arrived and found him dead in the driver's seat. He was popular and had a girlfriend and had a great deal going on and he was loved by everyone. A huge memorial service was held and every one of his peers, family members, athletes, and teachers placed a yellow rose on his Corvet. His football number and jersey were retired in his honor and his mother got his graduation cap and gown that had just come in for graduation. He was dead and gone and there was no coming back. And thus the Yellow Ribbon Project was started, a project against teen suicide. Everyone who had come to his funeral had recieved a Yellow Card that they all kept in their pockets, and that card has saved lives. When some of those people were going to commit suicide, they found their card and immediately called somone that loved them, because we've all got someone that loves us. I was just wondering how much this really happens. Thanks, everyone. I hope it's recognized t

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

Does anyone else have a Solo and Ensamble Festival??

So at our school and at schools in my general area, there's a Solo and Ensambel Festival, that's basically a competition between schools and students to see who's plays/sings the best. I'm going, but I'm really nervous about it because I feel like I'm going to suck when I get there and the whole of EVERYONE is gonnal laugh. If you have tips on not looking stupid, I think I'm going to need them. If you do have it, then I must know if you have to dress up for it because it's only two weeks from yesterday and I still don't know half the things about it. I'm still signed up though, and I've been woking on a piece to play for about six weeks and it's turning out all right. it's difficult though, so I'm still speculating on that whole bit of it. If you've been to one of these before, can you tell me what happens? So it's on the last saturday in January and I'll be there for about 9 hours. Ideas for clothes? Hair? Something that's dressy but doesn't scream buisness.... I'm in jr high so I've got to be comfortable, that's a must, and I have this weird prejudice against dresses and skirts. And tights. I look freaking horrible in tights. And it HAS to be durable, something that will last for a long time. Hopefully, the specified 9 hours. Even if we don't need to look nice, i still want to, just not overdoing it. School pride is a big thing with me and I want to make us as a school proud. I'm sorry this was so wordy and long and, (pointless, even to me a little) I'd really appreciate your help, though.... I'm just so worried and I know I won't be once we're there, I've never done it before and I'm just so nervous on how I'll do and how I'll look. Thanks in advance, love you!!!

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

What should i use for a profile pic? I've been going back and forth.

Pretty clearly stated, I'd say. Here are options 1, 2, and 3. oh, sorry. I play the trombone, that's what the third option is.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

My hair is so BLAH to me, know what I mean?

So my hair is just echh. I like the style, if there is one, because it takes about three seconds to brush through in the morning, but it's nice that way. I want to get it cut soon, any ideas? Here's a pic of my hair&face.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

gahh clothes. They confuse me.

Sssso I have a wardrobe that is all over the place. There is no set style and i have clothes from a whole bunch of different stores and they go together well enough, but none of it reflects me, as a person. The whole rainbow is my closet 'cept i dont have any purple or pink. Next time I go shopping, I want to have a clue of what I should buy. I can pull off most stuff but i look best in purple, red, orange, yellow, black, and white. Could I have a couple pointers on jean brands as well? I hope that doesn't sound pushy but i really have no style and i want to look like I do. Help please?

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

I hate that I love him

I hate it and i hate him but i love him at the same time and it's so freaking confusing. It's confusing the crap out of me.... and yeah its the same guy as before; he just spins me around in circles and it's driving me insane!!!!! He's not going back and forth on the hate me love me thing anymore, but its almost the same thing. Sometimes he'll talk to me but wont even look at me in public... we still text a lot, too. He's such a bitch but i love him because of that and i hate the fact that i love him because i know i shouldn't and i have the feeling that i won't forget him for a long time, i'll still remember EVERYTHING about everything that happened. Somehow I think that some of you wonderful girls will know what i'm trying to say better than I do myself. Thanks :)

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

almost 9 years

he's using me for his game-- you all were right. And now I finally know the truth.

Yah-- my ex bf... Kept telling me he loved me and then he hated me, loved me, hated me, back and forth like that, and he got stuck on hate me. I asked what was up and he texted me about it, and I quote: "Well heres the thing: after the break up i never liked you and you did so i am trying to shake you off and not like me anymore so I am building you up and tearing you down cause i hate you that's why now dont even think about me cause here is no chance of getting back together and this whole time ive been lying this whole time..." That's exactly what he said, along with some other things. I cried and he didn't see. He said that's what he does to exes. I probably didn't react too well, started swearing at him actually, through texting after school, but it still hurts and it shouldn't because he's a jerk, but it does and it feels like I'm being torn apart from something eating away at me frome the inside. What should I do? Ideas and advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

about 9 years

Are guys jerks on purpose or do they just not know the right thing to say ever?

I've never ever met a tactful guy. They always trip over their words or just do everything completely wrong. Some of them are just *ssholes and sometimes I wonder if the do it on purpose. Do they?

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

about 9 years

My ex bf is acting wierd again, I don't know what he's trying to say...

So after the testing today (WKCE its a big test that they shut down school for and it's only the grades taking the test that go) there was all this STUFF to do, like in the auditorium there was a movie and in the commons there was ping pong. Anyways, we were on a ping pong team, he was making rude comments about my ponging skills (which suck) and I punched him in the shoulder. We started laughing, were just good friends. He's flirting though, and it's strange because I'm not single and he knows that. I think he misses having a girlfriend, just a little. He tells me about everything that happens to him. Since I'm his ex, then it makes it easier instead of harder to talk to him. But he just flirts, little things, and he smiles a lot. I still like him a little, its hard for me not to, and I think I might like him better than my current boyfriend, who I don't think is that into me. I don't want to break up with him, though, he's sweet. What do you all think I sould do? I'm a lil clueless.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

about 9 years

Hey you beautiful people do you have any tips on forgetting a past love to start a new relationship?

Yeah, the past love is the guy I was asking about before. He's going out with someone different now and forgot about me. I'm ok with that. He was a little jerk like. So I went to our school's halloween dance, and it was less than I expected but that's beside the point. Slow dancing kindof scares me a little bit, especially if I'm just standing around. And, even if some of you disagree, I prefer to slow dance with a guy than one of my friends. I did that, it's nice. We're both single... at the time, and I just asked him because he looked lonely. And he was reeeaally cute. His name's Cole and Matt is my ex. They're both a grade older than I am. So we slow danced a couple more songs, mainly because neither of us really had a partner. Then he asked me out, I don't know why, but he did and I said yes. I want to forget about Matt. That seems a lil impossible right now, but I'm sure it is. In some different universe. So, any suggestions? Help would be greatly appreciated.

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firefox_12

firefox_12 asked:

about 9 years

So my boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. Now he's acting wierd, I don't have experience.

He broke up with me, then proceeded to act like I didn't exist. He didn't even look at me. Then, a couple of days later, he started to text me. After we have a couple of conversations about the break up (It's so much easier to text it than to say it, we both don't talk much) I tell him I love him and he says he'll wait for me forever and a day, and we keep talking about trivial stuff. Where I live, it's the truth or it's bust, and no one would lie about something like that. No one would lie to me, period. I ask for him back, keep in mind we still don't talk at school, and he says he's gotta think about it. A couple days later, like 6 people come up and ask if I asked him out and I say yes. They are fucking quoting my text!! I got all pissy at him and he tells me not to talk to him. I can deal with that. Now, even more days later, he's acting like himself and makes me laugh. We sit next to each other in band, both play the trombone, but he just acts like he did before he asked me out. ?

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