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Evan English




20 Sep 1992

I'm a musician, Christian (Reppin Jesus Christ & THE HOLY GHOST!), audio/video junkie, and a fan/wearer of fedoras. The name's Evan.

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evan_english asked:

26 Mar 2010

Break-ups suck, but this is just rediculous...

Around February last year, I started seeing this girl. We had similar interests, sense of humor, etc. A few months before we broke up, she started drinking and doing drugs. Pretty heavily, and often. Should mention she has a 2 year old (Well, will be 2 on July 31st)? She would do this with her little girl in the same room. So, I was like, "Yeah, I'm not liking what you're doin". I had some problems with drinking and such in the past (getting into the car while me and my buddy were drunk, etc), so I didnt like her doing it. So, I told her that I was gonna join the Army for Computers, and that I would take care of her baby and her (they lived in a trailor with her drunk dad). Around August, she decided to leave me for a friend of hers, told me I was a loser and that her daughter would never know I even existed, and wont let me call on her babys birthday. I had to get a buddy of ours to relay Happy Birthdays to her baby for me. It's been 9 months since then. I think about them everyday.



lorii_grace says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2010

you love your baby? keep an eye out for the kid. why haven't you filed for custody or anything? if that's your kid and if you're often cleaner and more sober than the mother, it's probably in this babes best interest to have either you as a parent or someone else... but people tend to be selfish. maybe she needs to give the baby up, maybe you do too so he/she can have a better life.

anyway.. that's a bit harsh, but you got yourself into that situation - so you can get yourself out. move on with your life, man.. if you're not already.. get clean, get sober... just watch out for that kid, he/she should be your first priority. if you can get completely clean and get your life in gear, perhaps you'll inspire your ex.

how old are you guys anyway?


barbipixi says:

Posted on 27 Mar 2010

well number 1 she's not your kid there is nothing you can do about anything unless you think child services needs to be involved.

two? you had to get your friend to relay happy bday to a 1yr old? cause her bday for #2 isn't for a couple months. is that right? you seriously think a kid that old knew a friend was saying happy bday from you?

i just didn't get that part not saying it's not true, just i don't understand that part

and that seems like a pretty typical type of breakup for lots of people so don't feel bad. guys and girls tend to want the more exciting or easier druggy contact if that's what their into. it's sad that her daughter is involved and it's even sadder that her parent isn't fixing the situation. but there's really not much else you can do if you knew her baby daddy he could try to get the child but as for you. all you can do is forget and move on you'll just drag yourself down


evan_english says:

Posted on 26 Mar 2010

Well, she's not technically MY child, so I can't do a whole lot. I'm 18, the ex is 19

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