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Ebony Rose







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ebonyrose asked:

24 Apr 2012


My boyfriend lives about twenty minutes away from me and we go to different schools. We haven't been together very long, I like him but I have feelings for someone else. The other guy "R" goes to the same school as my boyfriend, we have been close for a while and we have a bit of history. R knows I like him, but we have been arguing lately. He told me to stay with my boyfriend, but then I told R a lie to make him like me back. Unfortunately it backfired and he didn't want to talk to me. I told him the truth and he said he is interested but I should stay with my boyfriend for a while and see what happens. I know i shouldn't have lied to R in the first place but he has also been changing his mind a lot. I honestly don't know what to do, i don't want anyone to get hurt. I think I might actually be in love with R...



gorgeousnymph says:

Posted on 24 Apr 2012

Well, you have 2 options: or stay with your boyfriend and let everything be in its place the way it is, continue stable, or risk your stability and go for R. So you got to think carefully about it, is R worth it? Are you sure you wont end up alone?
You could make a list of pro and cons, and decide that way. And browse the feelings both boys have for you, decide wich are stronger.


dragana94 says:

Posted on 24 Apr 2012

You need to choose carefully.Think about it,maybe this for R is just a thing,I say stay with your bf see how things go,and if you don't have any strong feelings for him,brake up.Cuz you bf shouldn't be a backup,it's not fair! But if you thinking about someone else and don't like your bf,brake up no matter what happens to R,cuz it's not fair to your bf. :)


purple714 says:

Posted on 26 Apr 2012

this is a tough situation. so your boyfriend right now it looks like to me you haven't known him as much as R. You and R are friends and have been friends for a good amount of time. now here comes the tricky part both boys go to the same school so that kind of stinks. but if this was me i would pick R. i say that because you have known him for awhile unlike your boyfriend now and you said you MIGHT be in love with him. you have to go with who makes you more happy and you want to pick the one where you can't wait to hang out with them or when you kiss you have butterflies. so this one is up to you. but like i said i would pick R because you have known him longer and you might like love him. on the other hand your boyfriend now is probe. sweet and stuff but you don't know him as well and you don't have as many funny moments with him as you probs. do with R. now obvi. R was has been changing his mind because you lied to him but, i don't think he is upset with so if you do pick him then i think he would be filled with joy. like everyone says before you date someone become friends first. i hope this helped :)


caslynn says:

Posted on 26 Apr 2012

Whether you continue to go after R or not, you need to leave your boyfriend. He deserves better than to be lead on while you chase after other boys, not to mention that the emotional connection you have to R--to the point that you think you might be in love with him--is a form of cheating. If you want to try to work things out with R, then do that. Don't give up on someone you think you might love. But be fair to this other guy. He deserves a chance to be happy too, even if that means being with someone else.


ebonyrose says:

Posted on 26 Apr 2012

thank you this really helped!! x

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