I'm going out with a girl, during the day, it's the first time I've been alone with this guy and I want to look cute not slutty but still hot. It's winter here, so I can't wear shorts or anything short. I'm 14, what could I wear thats flattering, eye catching and still age appropriate? *guy hehe woops

I'm almost 14, I feel like my body is a bit big for someone of age but I have smallish breasts. I think my stomach is fat, I really want to know some quick weight loss tips. Anything will help, thanks x

My boyfriend lives about twenty minutes away from me and we go to different schools. We haven't been together very long, I like him but I have feelings for someone else. The other guy "R" goes to the same school as my boyfriend, we have been close for a while and we have a bit of history. R knows I like him, but we have been arguing lately. He told me to stay with my boyfriend, but then I told R a lie to make him like me back. Unfortunately it backfired and he didn't want to talk to me. I told him the truth and he said he is interested but I should stay with my boyfriend for a while and see what happens. I know i shouldn't have lied to R in the first place but he has also been changing his mind a lot. I honestly don't know what to do, i don't want anyone to get hurt. I think I might actually be in love with R...