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dreamer400 asked:

27 Aug 2011

if my boyfriend has problems that border on being controlling do i call it quits?

okey so me and my boyfrind have been dating for 7 months

and things were great until we started fighting more and more almost everyday now

its always about little things he gets jealous very easily so like if a guy says hi to me in a the school hall or on facebook some guy will like my status or comment on a pic and he

will get mad thinking there might be something going on. (though i cant blame him his ex of 2 years cheated on him) he says he cant trust me bc im very closed off and while i have been trying to open up to him its hard. things in my past made me this way.

he also threatens to break up with me when we get in really bad fights but then regrets it later saying he cant live without me. i stopped talking to everyone i gave him everything and sometimes he just doesnt get that.

i love this boy to death and bc of his hmm lets say troubled childhood well tthat changed him

it scarred him i cant leave him..? ahh help?!



dragana94 says:

Posted on 27 Aug 2011

Ok,this problem,has my friend,this isn't a healthy relationships.if he's getting mad about little things,such as u said,than it's something wrong.I know u like him,my friend cried every day,cuz of him,also because little things.U need to talk w/ him,and if he brakes up,than leave it like that,don't get back together after few days,give him a time to think about what he did.
Also he can't expect for u,to stop talking to everyone,it's ok sometimes to be jealous ( i understand his gf cheated him) but that's not an excuse.And no matter how much u like him,u need to have your freedom & your friends,if he can't trust u or understand u,than like I said it's not healthy relationship.My advice is talk to him,explain how u feel,and see how it goes.Good luck


vampkisses says:

Posted on 28 Aug 2011

okay well trust is one of the most important things in a relationship and if he cant trust you (even if he has his reasons ) then i dont think hes really ready for a relationship till he can get things figured out... i dont wanna sound mean but i think you need to distance your self a little more then break up with him, cause lets face it, highschool relationships usually dont last for a long time ... my sister just had a boyfriend of 2 years and she gave him everything she distanced herself from others and then they broke up and she didnt know wat to do, she was completely lost from her friends... if you guys break up it'll be hard for a little while but it will probably be better in the end... well goodluck i hope you can figure things out!


inside_out says:

Posted on 28 Aug 2011

I agree that your relationship is definitely troubled... it seems like he has some personal problems that he hasn't dealt with yet.
Since you said both of you have things in your past...
It sounds like you do need trust. And you two probably need to sit down and talk... tell him how you feel and ask him if there's something going on.
If you're fighting every day... maybe you two need to take a break.
God Bless :)

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