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doll face1342



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doll_face1342 asked:

13 Jun 2011

what should i do? should i worry?

well ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dateing for awile (awile awile). we do everything together, we'r inseperable. He told me that he could see us being to gether for the rest of our lives you know? (i can too i might add) But he say's that he has this feeling that, he dosent want to miss out on anything. he ment that sence im the only one he's been with (hopefully you catch that drift) he wonders if its dumb, or ignerant to settle. I somewhat see his point, i think that society and popculture sorta shows that, you needa be with a bunch of people before you know which one is right. And i ,personally, think that's false, but i can see where he's comeing from. I guess i want to know what you guy's think that i should do. i mean is this just a phase, like of nervouseness? or is this something that is going to stay in his head? so i'd like to know your guy's opinons and advice, thank you ahead of time.



inside_out says:

Posted on 13 Jun 2011

I think that what he is feeling is just peer pressure. Like you said, popular culture encourages us be with lots of people and perhaps never settle down. This is what the world is telling him to do - he needs to decide for himself what HE wants to do, and that's a decision that only he can make. If he really loves you, he'll make the right choice.


jessd says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2011

i think hes definitely nervous. Its kinda like your stuck in one place for your whole life and after awhile you start to wonder what else is out there. I mean i totally get what hes saying. Men are different so i cant say be worried! or anything like that, cause u never know. If he truly loves you he wouldn't leave you. But maybe if it does come down to that, maybe you guys can take a break try dating other people and than see what u guys want.


foreverunforgotten says:

Posted on 16 Jun 2011

I think he means it when he says he can see you guys being together for a long time. But wants to experience things. & isn't ready to be stuck in one place yet.
I think in the best interest for you two. It'd be best to take a break.
Date other people. & then decide if you both really want to be with each other.
I mean, with you being the only girl he's been with he doesn't know what other girls or relationships are like. So he doesn't really know if he'd want something different from what you two have.
You two have all the time in the world. Explore the dating world.
Don't worry. If you two are really good for each other and decide that you're happy where you are after taking this break it'll make your relationship even stronger, and you two won't have a trace of a doubt and will feel very secure in your relationship.

Hope this helped. :]

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