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Demi Magg

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demi_magg asked:

06 Nov 2009

I have a crush on my friend's boyfriend.

We're very close friends and he makes me laugh.. And when we have our personal conversations, it's amazing. But then.. It all just hits me. My friend is going out with him. I can get over a little crush. But why does it hurt whenever I see them flirting or making out? :(

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bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 06 Nov 2009

Because you like him. He's not yours remember so your putting yourself in this hurtful situation. If you like to feel jealous over somebody thats not yours or like feeling guilty then dont change anything. if you dont like all this then the best way to put a stop to it is just not to talk to him. that will help you get over him if you dont talk him or have all those deep conversion, nothing that will make you feel close or attached to him

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 06 Nov 2009

I believe you are more into the idea of having a boyfriend. The idea of someone to talk too, someone to be there... and a guy. so your crush is the idea of having a boyfriend. Jealousy is a natural thing. we all have a little feeing of jealousy sometime or another. So what you are feeling when them flirting and kissing... is that you are jealous of the fact they are together... and that you want that too. which is perfectly fine. no one wants to be alone..... i think you are feeling jealous because you do not have your friend all to your self.... you see them being together, sorta like an attention thing. if you know what i mean. but your are fine. i think once your find someone for you, everything will be okay. you will not be feeling this jealousy anymore

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 07 Nov 2009

yeah very normal...i have had it happen to me before. its like someone punched you in the stomach every time you see them happy together prob. the worst part is if you did eventually get to date him or he started liking you too then it would be a major problem possibly between your bf and you. i would try to get over him-or avoid having to see them together. sucks though cuz you cant even tell your bf.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Nov 2009

sorry but girls usually develop feelings for guys they are around alot. so it'll probly not be the last time this happens



but if you had someone else in your life that you could spend more time with and become better friends maybe even more than friends it'll help you move past it



people always seem to worry about those things less when they have their own to worry about

crazy_izzi

crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 09 Nov 2009

u like him a lot but its a total no no takling the best friends bf i did it and now she hates me

it always like this when u hang out with a boy 2 long u develope feelings

try 2 be nice and try not 2 flirt even when u like 2 when ur friends finds out u flirt with her bf

u can only sai HELO DRAMA

and a big fight over a boy u might not like in a few monts or so but u lotst ur bets friend

i hope thisd helps

xxx

izzi

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