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darlinganddear asked:

04 Aug 2012

How old is too old?

So, I am 17. I like a guy who is 27. Is he too old for me? I mean I keep reading online to see if thats too old but nothing is giving me a straight answer...I really like him and I know he likes me, but he won't date me until I am 18. But by that time, he will be 28. I mean, seriously, is he too old? Well, he actually asked me out on a date when I was 16 (not realizing tht I was 16) and I said no because I was too young, he was 26 at tht time. But now we have gotten to know each other more and he asked me if I wanted to wait til I was 18 and of age to date. He knows my views on sex, not til I'm married, tht won't stop him but still. And it's not that it's romantic in my mind...he just makes me happy. Does tht change anyone's answer? I feel like I'm nieve to think that this could actually ever happen.



callmeiris says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2012 is really complicated...I think that he won't date you because he knows that you two are in different phases of your lives....believe it or not what seems pretty blissful at first sight can turn into drama and you'll definitely have problems accepting his lifestyle, goals and principles....Unfortunately I think he is too old for you....sorry for saying that....but you must understand his point and the risk he takes if he dates you and you prove to be too sensitive to handle the situation properly.....LOVE IS HARD and as time goes by you're perception will change about it too....don't hate me for saying this....I know I'm 26...


jackie_walsh says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2012

The reason he won't date you until 18 is in case you guys do anything sexual he would be in trouble with the law. I mean it's okay to date and stuff but who knows what might happen. Personally, I think you'd be better with someone closer to your own age. I mean it sounds romantic and all now, but 10 years is a big difference.


vampkisses says:

Posted on 04 Aug 2012

I definitely agree with Jackie about the reason he won't date you, It's illegal for you guys to practically even touch... But too old, that's really up to you guys. Personally I think yes. But it's not my relationship. If you do end up dating him I highly advise you to take everything really slow! If he starts pressuring you, that's not love and he just wants sex. My dad though is 43 and my step mom just turned 30, but it's soo different because she's grown up and knows how to take care of herself. I don't think you should date him but why would you listen to me anyway? But I just feel like somewhere down the road you're gonna end up seriously hurt and I just don't want that to happen... Good luck with whatever choice you make though and I hope everything works out for the best!


raynestorm233 says:

Posted on 09 Aug 2012

I'm not saying anything for or against this, but you should choose what you feel is right, vampkisses is right about if he pressures you to have sex, it's probably not be the best option, but my best friend's grandpa is 10 years older than her grandma, and they love each other no matter what their age is. Good luck :)

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