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danyooz

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danyooz asked:

21 Jun 2011

How do i make it better? Or what do i do?

I snuck out of the house to go meet the guy I love a street away, I was gone for a long time and my mom got really mad that i didn't take her permission and the fact that i was with a guy, late at night. She got so mad, and now she wont even talk to me. When do you think she's going to cool down? She also thinks that i've changed and have become rude and disrespectful, what do i do? Everytime i try to speak to her she gives me the strict face and leaves without saying a word. Help me.

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vampkisses

vampkisses says:

Posted on 21 Jun 2011

okay so... hmm... if shes not talking to you, i would write her a letter... explain why you did it, why your sorry and what you learned.... in the mean time, i would try extra hard to get her to calm down, do things that make her happy... maybe help clean around the house or do things you wouldnt normally to make things easier for her... also in the letter i would appologize for being 'rude and disrespectful' even if you dont think you have been, it couldnt hurt... good luck!

april251

april251 says:

Posted on 21 Jun 2011

It seems to be that your mom is very upset about this issue so please keep in mind that your mom is probably lost in words of exactly how to handle the situation in a way that does not hurt your realationship with each other. Please let her know exactly how you feel about the situation after politely and with repect asking her to sit and chat. This is your mom so you should want to communicate with her about your emotions and feelings for your love for this person but on the other hand you must also know that good ole mom has feelings and emotions too and she is trying to do only what is best for you because she loves you:) Show her that you are mature enough to ask for a sit down and try to come out with a compromise that you both can handle with trust and love instituted into the situation of course. I hope everything works out for you:)

dragana94

dragana94 says:

Posted on 21 Jun 2011

I would explain myself,even she doesn't say anything,also try extra hard,help her around the house,don;t go out for a while..Hmmm apologize to her..She would calm down,but she is hurt and disappointed,because u didn't trust her and told where are u going..best of luck!!

inside_out

inside_out says:

Posted on 21 Jun 2011

If she's giving you the silent treatment, then I agree with vampkisses that you should write her a letter. I know that its sometimes hard for me to get my mom to understand... but your mom probably just feels a little hurt. She probably just feels like she can't trust you right now. It might take you a while to earn back that trust, but the first step is honesty. Instead of sneaking out of the house, try to be more open with your mom. She wants to be a part of your life and was probably just worried about you because she loves you. You just need to show her that you love her back :)

danyooz

danyooz says:

Posted on 22 Jun 2011

Thank-you both for your advice :)
Really helped me! :D

cookies12389

cookies12389 says:

Posted on 24 Jun 2011

if she is giving you the silent treament it means she probley needs something to say she will probly cool down soon. He rlittle girl is growing up and it makes here said it happends with all pareints. You just need to get here in a single room and tell her how you feel she needs to know how you are feeling emotionly it will be hard but yu will get a better bond withyour mom if she keeps icnoring you then right her a letter telling her what you would say. hope I help

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