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danielsgirl14

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danielsgirl14 asked:

13 Mar 2012

should i wait?

i really love this guy that im with. im still a virginn and think that he is gonna be my first. should i wait? or just go with things??

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isy

isy says:

Posted on 13 Mar 2012

its a personal choice,but don't just go with it. If you decide to do it you need to be prepared and know what you are getting yourself into. Be safe and smart

silence_

silence_ says:

Posted on 13 Mar 2012

...if you have to ask us, then you probably should wait. I guess you're not thinking of being safe since in the question above you've already decided on having a baby with him....You guys have better been dating for a decade I swear....

renderella

renderella says:

Posted on 13 Mar 2012

Oh sweet heart I don't know how old you are, but I didn't give mine to anyone until I was 19 about to be 20 and I ended up being with the guy for 5 years. It's something I couldn't see myself regretting and something I definitely don't regret it, but the question to you is are you old enough to marry this man. Would you be able to leave your family and support yourself if you did get pregnant? Oh and how long have you been dating this guy. I say if it hasn't been at least 6 months- year don't do anything. It actually takes about 2-3 years to really know someone, but if you're considering it already that must mean he has asked you about it. If you're being pressured to do it....don't do it. That was one of the reasons I was able to do it. If he would have pressured me, I would have left him. We were each others first and it was magical. I'm saying this because yes I am all for abstinence up to the age of 18 or until marriage whichever comes sooner. I know a lot of people will disagree with me about it, but I think people need to experience certain things before marriage,but at the same time I feel you should save it for marriage. I use to always want to be like in those movies, where the night after you get married you go to your room and make love on white sheets. Then the next morning the women of the family come in and remove the blood stained sheets. I thought it was the ultimate sign of purity and I still love that idea....but I can't ever get that now. If you do it you have to realize that your life will change and you will change. People will tell you that's not true, but boy is it true. You'll feel differently and you will know that something is missing. It's a rather interesting feeling, but a little difficult to handle at first. Some people begin to CRAVE intercourse...sadly I have seen many of my friends do just that. Most of them ending up being extremely depressed causing them to cut themselves, be admitted to hospitals, and even become prostitutes. I don't live in a bad community at all, but once you give up something you can never get back, some people go crazy.

dragana94

dragana94 says:

Posted on 13 Mar 2012

You said in your question,that you want a baby,but now you say you are a virgin,so I guess you didn't think this through,and you're not sure about baby either. If you ask us,then you're not ready,but this is a personal choice,you'll know it,if you're ready.

emmilymarie

emmilymarie says:

Posted on 14 Mar 2012

U should wait until u know urself. If ur asking someone else, that means that deep down u have some doubts. Don't just jump into it because u think it's what u want.

babygirl266

babygirl266 says:

Posted on 15 Mar 2012

Just wait girly! give your self a little time to think about it

briannanicolee18

briannanicolee18 says:

Posted on 16 Mar 2012

i think you should wait if he really loves you he would understand that you would rather wait and me personally if i were you i would wait before rushing into things. you might regret doing it and sometimes it werent really worth it to begin with. so my opinion WAIT : )

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