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cute_wonderful_blondie asked:

17 Jul 2010

what a cruel world...

I cant believe how many gross people exist...

That kill kids, abuse kids, kill animals, kill people...

In my country its not so bad like in some but it was a big disaster when a guy(a monster) killed an eight year old girl... Death is heaven for him...

Imagine waking up in the morning happy and u find out your kid is not in his bed, or in the house...I wish that to no one...

No one should go through that much pain..

While we're talking about hair and makeup, someone lives the worst day of their lives....

I don't know who created that people... If there's God out there, He should stop them...

We are powerless in such things and people suffer(if I spelled that word right) in a lot of different ways..

and after this tell me: does a breakup really hurt as much as these things can??

What's your opinion on this???

Answers

shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

well, first of all, life can be really cruel sometimes. some people have lived a happy life and then lost everything over the night. did they deserve it? no one deserves that but I think everything happens for a reason. someday, those pople will recover their lives slowly and they are going to heal. I think more about those people that are capable of doing bad things-I don't understand how can they just kidnap a child with no heart at all. but I guess there are a lot of different people in the world. but you shouldn't be thinking this way-we should be thankful we are living normally without anyone hurting our family and friends. this kind of things are real, they happen but we should be more focused on the good things, not just the bad ones. people take happiness and happy life for granted (I should know -.-'') and then when we lose it all we realise what happened. so I want you to think about happy situation in the world, in your life-I bet there were a lot of situation you can't even remember now because we have all took it for granted, like it'll be here forever. but life isn't all about pain, sure life sucks sometimes, but it reamins on us to live a happy life-we create it.

we talked about this before, being too mature for your age-you certainly are, I mean, how many pople your age are thinking about this, with how many people can I talk about politics haha? just think about the good stuff in your life. I'm actually just listening to Life is wonderful by Jason Mraz haha.coincidence? perhaps.

and about the break-ups. when you truly love, when you give yourself to that one special person and believe her above all-break up hurts. real bud. so much you just wanna stay in bed all they time listening to depressing songs and not go out. but there are so many bigger things in life. break up is painful but I would never put in the sam position with other kind of bad things. for example-when a family member died I was seriously depressed for years, I didn't want to eat, sleep, live normally. last month I had some kind of an emotional crisis-trusting someone too much, falling in love for the first time then losing that person because some people are just evil and they spread rumors. I was feeling really, really bad for like a week. then I started to realise that it's not that bad, that we could still be friends and work it out. and the next 3 weeks I was still being sad but not so sad I couldn't live my normal life. I was spending time with my firends, it's just my heart hurted really bad when I was thinking about that situation.

and I have problems with sleeping since that death in the family. it lasts for couple of year now but it's been really bad for the last 4 months cause I've been really stressed-school, getting to college and stuff.so, it left a deeper impact on me than a breakup definately.



hope you'll look on the bright side of the life. my friend use to write me this every day when I was sad:

Life is beautiful.

Smile. :)

nana_0601

nana_0601 says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

The world is what it is. It's cruel yeah, but it can also be nice, it depends on what one chooses to see and how they react to it all. You could be down about people dying every second of the day, but the fact of the matter is, life goes on, we're gonna die eventually to, so althought it's sad and people are killed in the worst ways, time won't go back, people won't come back alive, all you can do, is move forward and help everyone around you move forward as well. Without death, we'd never know how precious life is. Without cruelty, kindness would never truly be appreciated and held onto. These things are bad, but just part of the world we live in, without the bad, the good would never exist.

jwlover4ev

jwlover4ev says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

I agree. Life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react to it. Plus although death is terrible it is a fact of life that we must go through. And breakups may seem not so bad compared to death, but not only do you loose the person you loved, they might have hurt you very bad.

runningwithscissors

runningwithscissors says:

Posted on 18 Jul 2010

I agree with you 100%. I'm a pacifist, I don't beleive in vilence and war. I think it's absolutely disgusting. Human bodies weren't made to go through physical violence, or else it obviously wouldn't hurt.



You really have to count your blessings. With so much cruelty in the world, I'm sure that every single person on this site has it easy. I'm not saying I don't. I have it very easy. But things like that, that you hear on the news and terrible things you see on the interenet or read in the newpaper, it really makes you think.



Things like a break up can obviously hurt like hell. I've been there. I'm sure almost everyone on this sight has. But no matter what's going on in the rest of the world, it's still going to hurt. Don't feel like a bad person because your feelings are hurt. Of course, there are people that will tell you 'Oh, why are you sad? You have it so easy." it doesn't make it not hurt.

kat

kat says:

Posted on 19 Jun 2011

You're right. Superficial problems like relationships and weight are so miniscule when compared to all the devastating hardships that go on to others in the world. I wish there was a way to help everyone struggling trying to get basic needs, cure those people suffering with diseases, and to try to understand what goes on in a criminal's head when they take one of the lives of a living breathing person (they had to have psychological issues to think that it was okay to murder someone). But I feel exactly the same way. We are powerless. We are so small in this world that it would be almost impossible to help everyone in pain. There are some people who devote their whole lives to try to help others suffering. But that would mean having to sacrifice a lot and giving all you own to others, which just makes you suffer in the end. I wish I had a ton of money and power. I would use it to help others. This is why I look down on most celebrities and government officials. They have lots of money and power but refuse to use it for the good of mankind. They could help all those people who struggle to find clean water or help a family struggling to make ends meet. But they simply don't care. They live on in their lavish mansions and drive around in their luxury cars while they have the means to help others in bad situations. It just bugs me so much. I hate that the world has to be so imbalanced, where someone can afford a billion dollar house while another person is homeless. I wish we could all live happily and comfortably, free of any suffering. I wish we could live in peace.

shadyca

shadyca says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

and sorry about such a long reply, I was just trying to answer it good. (:

nana_0601

nana_0601 says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

A breakup will always hurt regardless of the happenings of other people. I mean, if you truly loved a person and they leave you, then you've just crossed the line and joined the people also having a worst day. Not as bad as some, but bad all the same. It just depends on how you look at it though. What is good and what is bad is morally subjective, meaning it depends on the person what they think is good or bad. You calling the world cruel would be your subjectiveness to the world, because I agree with absurdist philosophy, I think the world is just absurd, so just deal with it.

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

thank you so much.. and I really always am grateful but I'm scared of losing everything.. thanks for everything... =)

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2010

I will deal with it... thanks... =)

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 18 Jul 2010

I don't totally agree but I agree... thanks for answering... =)

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 19 Jul 2010

I agree... I actually never had a boyfriend but I know it hurts.. I was trying to compare those two that cant be compared...

cute_wonderful_blondie

cute_wonderful_blondie says:

Posted on 20 Jul 2010

agree.... you are the only one that understood the breakup thing.. I wasnt trying to say it doesn't hurt I was trying to ''get'' a point.. haha (= killing is the worst thing...

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