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12 Nov 1995

name isabell
nickname izzi
hobby riding horses writing poems writing stories :D
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crazy_izzi asked:

15 Jun 2010

i need help!! i am gettig addicted!!

ok i was a cutter

and it was the worst mistake ever.

i was "clean" for about 4 months

and now these days i feel this urge to do it.

i did it once and i am nentally screaming at myself.

becasue i am getting addicted to this shit.

i mean i want t stop but when i get mad or sad i need to cut.

i tried hitting stuff my pillow etc. but it doesnt work.

i did sports but it didnt work.

please help me!!

its really scaring me.

and no i cant talk to my parents ( we arnt reallly that close and i hate talking about my feelings)

i dont want to see a terophist ( no idea how to spell that thoise dudes that are supposed to help you)

please help me!!

thank you if you do





lorii_grace says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

there's a number of things you can try..

first of all you need to tell someone who can hold you accountable =) if you have a best friend, tell him/her and they can hold you accountable.

secondly, try writing on yourself instead. i know it's kind of cheating but if you take a pen and write on yourself where you want to cut, it helps.. and you can apply pressure. JUST DONT BREAK SKIN. as long as you dont break skin you can write on yourself this way and it helps.. you can write anything. names of people who wouldnt want you cutting.. reasons why you shouldnt cut.. how you feel. song lyrics.. anything.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

cutting or any form of inflicting pain on yourself for that matter, is a serious problem. I read about this before and I know this can pose serious danger. I guess this is your way of coping. Correct me if I'm wrong, it seems like you're dealing with depression here. Sorry to tell you that the best way to get you to stop (for good) is to seek professional help. And the fact that you're addicted to it makes it all the more necessary.You may have been clean for awhile but there's always the risk for relapse.


bear14 says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

i had the same problem...starting cutting, got addicted to it...stopped for a while and then started again....i was able to stop for my thing i did to stop was making braceletts (like the string friendship ones)...and then another thing i did was having ponytails/elastics on my wrist and snapping them when i felt the urge to whenever i have a blade or razor..i can't even bring myself to do it.....i've been clean for years now, i think 3 :)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

have you thougth about trying to write your feelings down?

or draw pictures of how you feel about things

or writing stories about how you feel but put them in different settings so no one knows it's you?


juicystar07 says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

maybe you could try talking to your best friend. i'm sure he or she could help you get to the root of the cutting problem. (ex. why are you cutting yourself?, when you feel sad do you want to cut? etc. . . ) try starting a journal or diary and write down you feelings into words. i found that when i was suffering from anorexia, i liked to draw and write more than usual. just keep on trying different things like drawing, writing listening to music, playing an instrument etc. . . and i'm sure that you will find something that works for you so you can forget about all your troubles and you can stop cutting. (wow that was a long sentance!!!)


crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

thank you i will try that.

i have a friend but he also cuts and we both are trying to stop

but my other friend helps me alot.

thank you again


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

yeah (: i went through that for awhile. actually my preferred method was burning, and even today sometimes i want to do it.. so i write all over myself :) ahha you should message me =)


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

yah.. sorry im saying so much but this is something i know a lot about. i know it's hard to get professional help.. i know you really don't want to.. but the sooner you stop it the better. you will NEVER stop having urges, you will never ever stop wanting to.. RARELY someone never wants to again. it's about building the strength in your mind and in your spirit to break through it.

anyway. so i'm not telling you to get professional help because even some professionals dont know very well how to deal with self harmers.. so try looking at things like TWLOHA (: check out their site, and you can get support and other inspirations. kay?


lorii_grace says:

Posted on 15 Jun 2010

im sorry... but thats not true!! its not a mental thing. it's also a spiritual and emotional thing. in depth studies have shown that chemistry make up makes some people more vulnerable to the addiction of self-harm, and if you had your brain scanned, professionals WOULD be able to tell that you are a self harmer. yes. no joke. so obviously it's NOT just a mental thing

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