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isabell

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crazy_izzi asked:

07 Feb 2010

HELP!! CUTTING ISSUES!!!

ok

i was these days really depressed

the guy i liked is now together with my friend(i am over that now)

i liked the other guy and he just wanted to be friends

my gud guy friend want more that friends

but i dont

so u see much drama

i started cutting again myself

and i thought it will be ok after that

but everythine became worse

my one other guy friend was so depressed because of some famaly problems

he NEARLY KILLED HIMSELF!!

by cutting nealry his vain!!

we talked about this to him and he said he will stop

but now on face book he is all the time i need to finish this and stuff

i should i do???!!!

i am so scared

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jaydde_woodrow

jaydde_woodrow says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2010

i think that the right thing to do in this situation is to talk to him, tell him that you too have been in that situation, and explain what the good things in life are.

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Feb 2010

it's good to try and talk to him but if you think it didn't help you need to tell an adult. you don't have to let him know you did it you can show them his facebook page and that should be enough



but it sucks that kids think everything is so hard like you're just having issues with guys but all that seems pretty insignificant when you get older and have other issues like your job and taking care of your apartment and life guys are pretty much a dime a dozen so that's never a reason to stress yourself. when your young it's suppost to be about getting older, moving out. and learning to take care of yourself.



try to figure out what's bothering him most maybe and help him realize that it changes as you get older it may seem like the end of the world now but when you grow up usually it's just a distant memory and things do get better. it's just hard to focus on that when your life is all taken care of except the love/friendship aspect

papops123

papops123 says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

i do cut myself and it is hard to stop. im still trying. and... i have tried to commit suicide b4.. its a problem but my best friend talked me out of it and u need to talk to him. it means a lot when u know ur friend loves u and doesnt want u to b gone. just make sure he never feels alone. and tell him ur always there for him no matter wat

_riah_

_riah_ says:

Posted on 08 Feb 2010

I totally agree with Barbi.



Things like this are not something you should try to kil yourself over. I think that is pretty childish and really they have no idea what they are doing. It is an insult to see these kids who "cut themselves"...when all they are are little papercuts over a kid they "loved" but got over in 3 days. I'm really sorry, it's just how I feel about it.



Talking to him is a good thing if you care about him. You should try to make him understand that this is not the end of the world.

xxmusicluverxx

xxmusicluverxx says:

Posted on 09 Feb 2010

STOP THE CUTTING. Try occupying your hands with something to do like painting or playing guitar. Do something that doesn't involve a razor/knife/dagger whatever you use. About the boy, talk to him about his problems, and talk to him often that way he knows that you care about him. (so there's no more suicide there) Try getting him into the activities your doing to prevent him from cutting himself. (no cutting there now. ur almost there!) Now, talk about your feelings to him. Even if you don't want to date him, give him one try. I did that with a guy friend, it didn't work out so we just stayed friends. We're still friends to this day and that's what you should do with that guy if it doesn't work out. BUT, number 1 thing to do is STOP the CUTTING. It is very bad, especially if you get close to the main vein. I hope everything works out though. :-s

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