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cookiemonstuh asked:

25 Oct 2009

Im his first gf!

ok so like, me and this guy started going out like last friday, and hes been acting weird, not really talking to me, and not really acting like a boyfriend and im so tempted to break up with him and his friend tells me that im his first girlfrind! like, we're freshman so i wouldnt think that. so im kinda confused. like apparently he doesnt know how to talk to girls. and its just really awkward. idk how this is going to work. any advice??

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auri

auri says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2009

Be the one to talk. When you see him at school, say hey and try to talk to him a bit.he may be one of those shy guys at first...

But go slowly, i understand why he would be shy or nervous but if you take it slow im sure you'll eventually be able to talk to him all the time and maybe even hold hands if you want =]



If you dont feel comfortable in doing so, i think its okay to let him know its harming the relationship and he would probably get over all the shyness and nervousness around you.



whatever you do, if you decide to break up with him...try to do in the nicest way possible. yeah breaking up with someone isnt nice but that would be his first heartbreak and you wouldnt wanna make it horrible.



Good Luck Hun ,

x

ctl888

ctl888 says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2009

Don't breakup with him. If you are his first girlfriend then you should be a little more considerate. Talk to him sometime after school. Do not embarrass him. Tell him that you understand and will work at his pace. No one wants to be pressured into something new or uncomfortable with. This may bring you two very close. Imagine if the roles were reversed....if he was your first boyfriend. You would be a little nervous on how to act around him. That is good that he has a good friend to tell you what is going on. Now that you are aware of the situation you can work with your new boyfriend.

emirossch

emirossch says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2009

that happened to me once oh boy.. i gave him a week to talk and he didnt it was really awkward for me so i did end up dumping him i crushed his heart i felt so bad but he didnt say a word to me.. :( well im not sure its probably really hard for him i bet i guess give him some time maybe a warning idk.. its up to you my dear.

_lisstheshopaholic_

_lisstheshopaholic_ says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2009

you should talk to him about it instead of just dumping him without an explanation

manssskulll

manssskulll says:

Posted on 25 Oct 2009

I think you should talk to him that would be the best idea

and just try and act nice around him and make him comfortable. He'll just be nervous because he doesn't know how to act obviously :)

Just hang out with him and get closer a little slower than you usually would :)

Hope i helped

K

xxx :) :thumbup:

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 26 Oct 2009

y would you start dating someone w/o hanging around them and talking to them a bunch first?



strange customs you children.



anyway i'm my boyfriends first real girlfriend. he was 23 and never offically had a girlfriend and was very shy. but sometimes those are the best guys. sometimes : P



if you're going to date you need to spend time together and if he won't spend time with you then you really never should have become 'boyfriend and girlfriend' it is ok to just date someone and not be there girlfriend until you go on a few dates and see how you get along.



i suggest you start that. try dating a bit. can he go on dates? even if one of your parents takes you guys to the movies anything to help him relax and realize you're not going to jump him you just want to know him

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 26 Oct 2009

talk to him like a friend-like a guy friend if you know how. truthfully idk how it is different whether you have a had a bf/gf before or not, just be like you are around any other person then hopefully he will follow and things will just go naturally

fulltimepinklady

fulltimepinklady says:

Posted on 26 Oct 2009

talk to him like a friend-like a guy friend if you know how. truthfully idk how it is different whether you have a had a bf/gf before or not, just be like you are around any other person then hopefully he will follow and things will just go naturally

cookiemonstuh

cookiemonstuh says:

Posted on 12 Dec 2009

ive known him for 2 years, honey. we know each other. please dont assume things before you know the facts.

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