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Chrisna de Beer




21 May 1992

hey... i'm a 17 year old teen and lives in south-africa. im homescholed and have been dancing since i was three years old and thats why dancing is my life! i also love music and play the keyboard and is busy studying music at unisa...part time from school that is. i also sing and act and want to go sMore saduisahduiash dsau

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chrisna asked:

01 Jul 2009

do i need time alone for a while or is it a bad idea?

Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and two months now and well ive given everything for this relationship but about a week ago i found out that his chatting to my bestfriend behind my back....he says there just friends and she says theyre mre than that.....ok but ill never know who spoke the truth but i chose to believe him because she had lied to me before... so i forgave him and the last wekend we just spent time together and talked about everything. i actually fell in love with him again...but something is so weird for me everyday he finds something to fight with me about and last night he found out one of my ex boyfriends called me last week and invited me again on mxit but i rejected him and i didnt think my boyfriend would care so yeah yesterday he found out about that and now hes telling me that he needs the one thats suppose to need time.... is it ok for me to just go away for a week and ignore him so he can make up his mind?does he still want me?



chloebabeess says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2009

OHH.. Please dont tell me you are still friends with this girl. shes sounds like a fkn bitch x( .. i say just leave him for a week or so ignore him and see if he truly loves you if he does he'l come runnin back :thumbup: x


ctl888 says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2009

I would not be bestfriends with her anymore...if she is sneaking behind your back and talking to your boyfriend. I thought a bestfriend is someone you can trust. Just a thought. I think maybe you might need a break to think things over. If you do make sure you tell him and tell him the he knows where you stand on the relationship. (You don't want him to start seeing other people while you guys are on a 'break'... you know..)


barbipixi says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2009

first yea keep a friend at arms lenght if you're not sure if you can trust them

second the same goes with guys

if he want's time ask him about that. does he want time to think about how much he cares about you and he thinks if he's alone he'll be able to figure that out

or does he want a break and be able to date other people

either way you're really young and that's alot of drama to deal with so i'd say if you can't get along there are tons of guys out there who can


pretty_fla_girl says:

Posted on 01 Jul 2009

i can understand where yew are coming from... my fiance and i have been arguing for a while now and now hes saying he wants time apart which i dont really agree with cuz i think thats how the "end" starts.. and ive been wondering if he jus wants time apart so he can do things he wouldnt do while we are 2gether which i worry myself sick about everyday.. but i have agreed 2 this time apart thing bcuz i feel our relationship is already... at tha end.. that part where we cant be around each other for 1 while day with out arguing. and it brakes my heart 2 even think about leaving.. but i need some time 2 clear my head and think things over... and maybe you should to i mean could it hurt.. thats tha same queation i ask myself and i cant give an answer without changing my mind within minutes.. so i guess i can say im with you.. confused.. buut i am leaving with my son for time apart 4 tha 1st time in almost 3 years now... SCARED OUT OF MY MIND but i know its for tha best


amaay says:

Posted on 02 Jul 2009

maybe just leave him alone for a week or so, and think things over.

maybe ask yourself:

are we serious?

do i actaully love him?


also, are you still friends with this girl, because if she is messing around with him behind your back, then who knows what could happen? (:



pretty_fla_girl says:

Posted on 04 Jul 2009

time apart is working well so far after jus one day... definately recommend it:thumbup:


rainbowoleander says:

Posted on 10 Jul 2009

1) Sit them both down and explain the conflicting explanations. "He says you aren't, you say you are!"

2) Tell them both if they don't get this straight right now, you are going to take time off from the BOTH OF THEM.

It takes two to tango, not just your friend or bf is guilty - they both are.

Take time off for a certain amount of time?? NO! Tell them that you'll take a break from them until you feel better about either of them.


shinja says:

Posted on 14 Jul 2009

He seems jealous so that means he want you. Though I would be really mad at him, he might have done things with you bestfriend and you forgived. Then he get jealous over THAT? I would tell him what you think and then leave him alone for a couple of days, even if he tries to contact you, so both of you can get time to think.

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