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Chrisna de Beer




21 May 1992

hey... i'm a 17 year old teen and lives in south-africa. im homescholed and have been dancing since i was three years old and thats why dancing is my life! i also love music and play the keyboard and is busy studying music at unisa...part time from school that is. i also sing and act and want to go sMore saduisahduiash dsau

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chrisna asked:

05 May 2009

boy problems...what should i do? and my boy friend have been dating for a year and well i really really love a way that i think hes the one....were so close and we spent most of our time together but the last couple of months we've been fighting a lot and at this stage my heart is completely torn....fighting with him really breaks my heart and i just cant take it anymore.the fights are always about something stupid like his jealousy, me doing something wrong, misunderstandings etc and ive confronted him about it a couple of times but every time hes great for a week or two and then everything just start again...i dont want to leave him but this whole thing is just really hurting me...what should i do???




gee_jade says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

talk to him again and be firm this time


anna_banana says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

ok tell him if he doesn't stop his idiocy then you'll leave him, it might be really hard to say this to him, maybe a few tears, but if he really cared about you he would atleast try to make you happy... also ask him why he is acting this way.

I had a bf just like that, i can guess how your feeling :-s it was really hard for me, lost someone i liked dearly. Don't make the mistakes i made don't fight with him just try to understand the way he sees you with other people. Maybe he is just really afraid to lose you, advice: it's gonna be hard to get him to say his true feelings men are to prideful and masochistic to easily admit their weakness.


little_miss_brightside says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

talk to him about it and sayy that these fights are really upsettin yu

sometimes couples jst go through phases were they fight a lot so this could be one of them

or maybe there is somethin that is really upsettin him or playin in the back of his mind and hes on edge because of it

it sounds to me like the best option would be for the two of yu to sit down and maybe over coffee or something discuss everything that is upsettin yu and how yu can fix it or what could make it better

i hope it works out for yu sweetie



beautiful_girl says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

♥Hello there Chrisna!Well...What if you tell him that if he will always act like that, you'll leave him...But you really have to be strong when your telling it to him...Maybe you'll shed a few drops of tears but don't cry in front of him.Make him realize that even he'll leave you, you will still be strong, alive, etc.Another one, When he's acting like that, you must fight back(if you are right), and you must defeat him...not defeat like a war with knives,swords,guns etc...not like that...just by words and remember, don't say bad words to him...Remember, if he's really not the right guy for you, just accept it because it can't be...Well that's all I know...I hope these things will work out and good luck!May the force be with yah!hahaha...Lol!!!!:))♥


anca says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

Communicate...tell him how you feel..and see how it goes:thumbup:


zorak81 says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

Talk to him. If he thinks you're wrong or whatever, ask why and how you both can improve together. Try to use always "us", "together" and all to avoid sounding egoist. After a good talk and knowing the reasons why the things aren't going well, balance if what you heard is true and what can you do about it WITHOUT feeling bad with yourself. If he's happy and you don't, then forget it.


barbipixi says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

every girl wants that perfect guy and we love alot easier than they do.

sometimes you're just not admitting to yourself that all the fights are things he's started

just make sure you're not giving him the benifit of the too many times. just because you want someone to react and think like you doesn't mean they really do

that might be his way of wanting you to break you off.

just keep in mind if HE is the one starting everything you're not that hard to understand. if you think he's misunderstood something he most likely hasn't and if he's jealous he should snag you closer not fight you off.

don't make excuses if that's the case. you're smart and you know if it's time to move on. there are tons of guys out there and he's not the ONLY guy out there that might be perfect for you


gbpkid says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

Love isnt about it being perfect all the time; its about after all the problems you still want to be with them :). Thats what my momma said to me, hehe :) xxx


wldchry8 says:

Posted on 05 May 2009

it sounds like there are a lot of trust issues and he wants to be controling. you should not take that you are your own woman and can make your own disisions If he is getting in that way and trying to control you then get away...... just because its just a little sign of controlling dosnt mean it wont get worse. Believe me i went through it for a 3 year relationship because i thought i loved him. but once i got away from it i felt so good like i could do anything and make my own choices again...... just dont take it from him and tell him that you wont take his bs

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