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15 Feb 1995

I'm crazy. That's all you need to know.

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chr0matica asked:

15 Aug 2009

Help! For my friend, please read quickly.

My friend has been very moody lately, and her mother seems to be the cause of it. My friend's mom has apparently gotten mad at her for seeminly no reason, called her fat to her face, and told her she couldn't take a shower until she exercised some. The mom has also been spending more time with my friend's little sister and not including my friend at all. My friend is not overweight, andI know my her mom pretty well, and this seems very out of character for her. I'm basically watching my friend's trust and love for her mom just disappear.

I'm friends with her mother on Facebook, and the question is: should I tell my friend's mother that she's destroying her daughter emotionally, or wait for my very shy and insecure friend to bring it up? I need answers as soon as possible... I don't want my friend to lose all faith in her mom, but I don't want to say anything that my friend wouldn't want me to say either. But please answer :( I'm scared for my friend. also, i don't know if my friend is getting everything right. i mean, she's also pretty melodramatic. i don't know the mother's side of the story either... and my friend usually always sounds like the victim in everything she does because she just phrases it that way.

also... the mom probably just spends more time with the sister because my friend doesn't wake up until 4 in the afternoon! she didn't tell me that part until i tried texting her multiple times and around 3:30 she said "hey i just woke up.." so i might have been mistaken as to this being a real issue or not.



naomi_xoxo says:

Posted on 15 Aug 2009

hmm I think you should talk to your friend about it first. Has your friend tried talking to her mother about it? If not, she should try that first...she should ask if something is bothering her etc... If this doesn't help then maybe you can ask her mother how she is or if anything is bothering her... maybe her mother is just stressed about something and is taking it out on your friend (>_


neoneyeliner says:

Posted on 15 Aug 2009

First talk to your friend and tell her stuff like "Oh Dont worry your mum is probably having a hard time right now" Or ask her if she did something really bad that she is hiding from you.

Well you can ask her mum why she is being so nasty only if your sure the mum wouldnt blame your friend for making you ask her questions.. getting me?

They may have some family problems and her mum just doesnt want the lil sis to know??

Or if your confident nd brave enough you can sit them both down and talk like a mediator..

hope this helps xxx


barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Aug 2009

maybe you should tell your parent's and have an adult help you?

maybe telling a teacher would help so they could set something up to talk to the mother

you can mention something to her if you think she's going to listen to a 'kid' cause some people just aren't receptive


barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Aug 2009

but that lady really need's to get some priorities in order and that may take a quick smack to the face


bribri77 says:

Posted on 17 Aug 2009

it seems wierd, but you should confront your friend before this gets any worse. ask her about the problem. and if it continues with her mom being retarded to her, then help her to get the courage to go up to mom and stand up for herself. Her mom might be going through something to though thats makeing her act that way. if it gets realllyyyy bad then tell your mom and ask her if she could just try to figure it out or get more advice from her. parents have more experience, although i wouldnt perfer a that might make things worse. hope i helped =)

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