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Chelsea McIntosh

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chelsssx asked:

04 Oct 2009

need advise with boys pleasee :( !

right well, its a long story but basically.

one of my best boy mates ryan told me he liked me about a month ago & he asked me out, and i liked him abit then but i knew i wouldnt go out with him but i just said i needed time to think and i know i should have just told him there and then because its so much harder now but i was kinda confused. But then we started meeting up after school like almost every night and we always kissed and that when we were out & hes really sweet and i started to really like him, but i havnt seen him for like 3days because he's ill so i have done alot of thinking and i know we can't go on like this i do want to go out with him but theres something stopping me so i just cant ! & i know i need to tell him the truth but he tells people how much he likes me which just makes it harder for me to say no! i dont know what to do for the best or what to say to him or anything!

(postin more in additional thingy in a minute cos cant post anymore here ha, so bare with me Also i know this sounds awfull but another reason i havnt given him a straight out no is because i do still like him and if he moved on i would be so jealous and might regret it ? But i just want him to be happy..

im 14 i shouldnt have to deal with stuff like this aha. But please just some advise would mean alot to me because he means so much to me i can't lose him :( xx

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ginger_e

ginger_e says:

Posted on 04 Oct 2009

well coming from the bloke side of things u just need to get on and tell him because the longer u leave it the worst it will be. i know because the same thing happened to me. hope it works out

barbipixi

barbipixi says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

your a kid and so is he. if you don't try it you'll think about it for a long time then try it.



if you like him and can't wait to see him in the morning you should try it. if he's like any of your girl friends it's just curiosity and not really dating love.



and yes it is very possible to like a guy as a friend and be friendly but when he shows intrest in someone else you get jelous and want him but when he's yours you just don't have that intrest in him anymore. and it's really hard to know if that's going on as well while you're going though it.



when you look at him do you think he's cute? attractive? and i'm not looking for 'kinda' as an anwser. if you can't say 'hell yes' then you shoulnd't date



you should atleast think to you he's hot. everyone had different standards for cute and if he doens't meet yours then that's one strike.



he really may just be very familer, and you just know him so well it seems easy to love him but just a super friend love

bethanyjl

bethanyjl says:

Posted on 05 Oct 2009

You need to tell him straight up. otherwise you can wait for months and months and then finally get up enough nerve to tell him and then he'll be like "how long have you felt this way?" and you'll have to say and he'll be way more mad at you cause you've led him on all this time. he'll probably be mad and hurt at you for awhile but keep being his friend and never give up. he'll come around. OR why don’t you try dating him for like say a week? If it doesn’t work then come out and tell him so.

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