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captainobvious asked:

07 Jul 2010


I have a certain friend who at times when we text lets say for instence i send her a whooole story or a very long message and sometimes all she sends back is something small like "Oh,cool" something like that, it makes me feel like she's not interested and idk what to do , like how to tell her? i think of stuff to start another conversation it works at times, but then it fades and goes to the same thing, it pretty much annoys me. any suggestions? or whats the problem? what am i doing wrong?



jaydde_woodrow says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

no, im kinda like your friend.......and i have to say that when i get a big txt..i just dont know what to say back to it...or i am concentrating on something else, so i dont pay attention....but i also think its because i dont really like writing long txt' is your friend at txt'in when you's are around each other???? does she seem interested in what people say to her through txts when you's are hanging out?? she just may not be into have done nothing wrong.......if anything you have tried to spark some conversation


bear14 says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

like jaydde said, she just might not be interested in texting.......i think too many people are relying on texting for their communication...why not try calling her instead or hanging out with her to tell her these stories? honestly? i'm a month away from being 19 and i still don't have cell phone...neither does my boyfriend and he's going to be 20 in december. okay yeah once i have money (next april), i'll be getting a cell phone, but that's because it'll be better for than a landphone since i'll be in an apartment (a phone i can actually take with me) and i wouldn't want to pay for two phone bills...unless i could actually afford it, which i doubt ....but yeah, i think people are taking texting to a too big of level


barbipixi says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

i don't text much. i don't hold long conversations on text. i'll talk on the phone sure but really i get to the point usually and then say my good buys. normally i like talking face to face best

maybe your friend is like that


ally_starkey says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

im like you.

i read into everything people are saying and if my friends act like that, one of my best friends does, it worries me that they are mad or dont wanna talk to me.

it could be a lot of things but you should probably at least mention it to her. dont make a big deal about it, and haha dont text it to her, but when you see her next time just innocently say something like hey you never really say much back when i text you am i bothering you or do you just not like texting? she may not realize it or she may just not care. but at least you tried.


forever_smiles22 says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

Used to happen all the time to me but once I just told my friend that in a joking-ish kind of way how frustrating it is to text all of that then get a few word response. And she completely understood. She laughed about it and said that she will put more to what she responds with. All you got to do is just tell them lightly how it's annoying to have such a short response or a cut off in the conversation. They will understand and if they don't theyre waaaaaaay to sensitive. Good luck and just be honest! : )


shadyca says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

consider trying to actually TALK to people?

she just doesn't want to type. because it's lame. we were made to socialize not to text. so next time when you have something big to say to her- meet up somewhere and you'll be suprised by her talkativity.


mistress1209 says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

she's probably just too lazy to type. LOL. either that or she's preoccupied with other thoughts. i'm sure it has nothing to do with you. bring it up casually once you get to talk to her in person but don't make it sound like a biggie.


_headfirstxfearless says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

I have this friend who lives about 15 minutes away and doesn't go to the same school as me anymore. So we talk on Facebook sometimes and I always feel like she says "brb" half way through our conversation and then takes like one hour or more to come back but she never goes idle. So I always feel like she's ignoring me. Eventually I just stopped IMing her first, lmfao. But I would talk to her . don't be like serious about it, because it isn't that big of a deal, but you know. and i also find myself answering with just, "lol cool" and stuff. because sometimes i don't feel like typing it out. I don't have a keyboard on my phone though, so that might be part of it, lol.


crazy_izzi says:

Posted on 08 Jul 2010

maybe, she dosnt likes to text??

i love texting but i gt annoted of it at time becaus you dont really 'talk'

to the person.

and mayb she has some prblems like family wise or so??

maybe try to just call her or so,

or meet up with her in the mall.

it's way more fun hanging out with someone than just text.

maybe the next time she just says'oh cool'

ask her why she rarly talks so much, in a polite wy so sh wont gt offended or so.

when she is a true friend sh will explain or so.,..

hope this helped a bit....




captainobvious says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

wel,,when it comes to something about her she writes paragraphs but it seems like when i have something to say she puts it off, when we hang around she texts around me,yes. but i wouldnt say shes on her phone 24/7 ya know?


captainobvious says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

Yea.. you right, alot of people rely on that. i think its good that you not rely on a phone. wether you had one or not. like, it seems like you wouldnt rely on it too much, we do talk on the phone sometimes, but she is either to busy talking to her boy friend, or her other best friends.


captainobvious says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

believe me i do too, when it comes to something BIG, we talk it out face to face. i guess we text just to talk to eachother, to have that connection but it'd be pretty boring if we'd both just say "Cool" and "Yeap" and stuff like that, get me? then their be no point in texting and she gets upset when i dont text her.


captainobvious says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

Yes,yes. that true! excatly how i feel, i feel like something is wrong. i ask, and she always says no. its nothing... thanks(: i was going to mention it later when we would hang out i just wanted to know the right way to bring it about...


captainobvious says:

Posted on 07 Jul 2010

haha thanks a bunch! i will take that into consideration(: i will talk about it.

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