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Ashley Abel




11 Nov 1986

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canary asked:

16 Jul 2009

I'm a complete wreck! Help me with anything and everything beauty related?

So, I'm ugly. I want to know what I can do to change it. I can't afford plastic surgery or any dental work, though I can afford new clothes and a haircut. I'm willing and able to lose weight and spend hours on makeup and hair, but my current routine consists of brushing my hair and putting on chapstick - I'd need help with anything else.

If anyone can point out good features that I should emphasize, that'd be great. I've only ever been complimented on my eyes, and I'm trying to get contacts instead of glasses. I'm thinking I should pluck my eyebrows, and I badly want to reduce the size of my nose and chin. I've had lots of people tell me they're too big.

Here are a few pictures. Please tell me what I can do to improve my appearance in any way, and thanks in advance:

Thanks, Kekye - your answer gave me a huge self-confidence boost. :]

I promise I'm not just trying to fish for compliments here! Maybe I really just do hang around with the wrong people?

, Thanks to all of you supportive people who have offered so much help! I will try some of your suggestions and try to have more self-confidence. I think a good haircut might be just the thing I need - my hair is so hard to manage, but I do love the way it looks when I put some effort into it.



kekye says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

DO NOT LISTEN TO THOSE PEOPLE. They need to butt off >:l You are beautiful so I don't know what the HECK you are talking about.


dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

your NOT UGLY! u hav beautiful skin.

Things u can do *if u can afford it* are:

Contacts-not colored

haircut...ill look around and post a pic of one that would look good....a reddish tint would look amazin

side bang and shorter hair

Blue eyes???

Taupe, gray, violet, purple, deep blue (a darker shade than your eye color makes your eyes really blue), black (mix it with bright blue for a smoky effect)

Silver, turquoise, fuschia (brightens any shade of blue


Brown, apricot, purple, plum, deep khaki or forest green (because they are in the same greenish family, they brighten green eyes)

Gold, lime-green, really light green, bright purple


Copper, bronze, champagne (soft pink with a touch of apricot), brown, beige, and khaki-green

Tangerine, royal blue, hot pink, lime-green (the contrast adds punch to brown)

a touch of a pink blush, and u hav a goregeous lip color so only a clear gloss to enhance the intensity of it or even a CLEAR lip plumper

Hope i helped..i look at hair styles. msg me if u hav an questions


rachelsauras says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

you are not ugly!>:(

if you want to see a big nose, I'm the girl.(:

but I've learned to take the attention to my other features and work with what I have.

I say definitely go for the contacts.:thumbup:

you're naturally pretty, so hours on makeup isn't necessary.(;

I'd say concealer; a bit of eyeliner, mascara, if you want eyeshadow?

you really don't need that much. keep it simple.

you hair is also really really pretty.^^

try a new part, add some highlights to change things up a bit, and get it maybe thinned, and long layers?

for wardrobe I'm not sure how you're dressing now, but just go with whatever you like. ask a sales department lady for some tips on what would look good and what's in style.

most importantly love what you've got.

when you start thinking my nose is so big

change your thoughts to wow, I have really nice eyes.

you truly are beautiful.

you've just got to get past your self esteem issues

and learn to believe it.




dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

these r all pics of me dont do the color i say if u wana do a color go darker not lighter


dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

the blue is clip ins


dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

no hilights


dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

with out pink lol. u could put a reddish tone in ur hair it would intensify the brown


3nir says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

You are not ugly dear:)

You should change your glasses. Or wear contact lens.

I think you're naturally pretty. If you want to wear makeup then go to youtube. There are loads of VDO where you can learn the method perfectly. Don't call yourself ugly, that will give the losers to call you that.

Get a new haircut.

And some highlights if you want. But I'll just suggest to cut your hair only. Because coloring hair is kind of damaging your hair. If you want to take the risk then it's your choice.


myradiosayslala says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

believe me girl , you are NOT ugly ! you have a very pretty face shape and your haircolour looks stunning on you .

just get some contacts i think your eyes will look stunning !

just get side bangs and a few layers that will look more modern :)

you don't have to change alot , you are really pretty !!!

if you want to wear makeup a bit of eyeliner and mascara will look good :)


bamzone81 says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

awww ur not ugly. if u wanna lose weight do some pilates or some excercises at home or the gym. and u can get some contacts if u dont like ur glasses. oh and u dont hav a big nose or chin who evr said that is psychotic lol


little_miss_sunshine says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

Your not ugly honey! You defo don't need plastic surgery at all!

You could maybe have a fringe put in and you could pop on some brown mascara and eyeliner as as far as i can tell you've got brown eyes? Try some lipgloss as well and as for clothes, go shopping with a friend and try loads of different styles of clothes on and see which suits you best.

And another thing, have some more self confidence because, as far as i can tell, you don''t think alot of yourself which is not right as you are pretty and all you need to do is pay attention to finer details.

Hope i helped Xxx


barbipixi says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

i agree with others here you just need more confidence

and it is more instyle to have a side bang or a full bang off to the side.

i like using covergirl eyeshadow cause it's semi seethrough with a lil sparkle so i feel a lil more feminin. and switch the chapstick for some of that burts beezwax with the lip tint to give you protection with a lil color but not over powering (i like watermelon)

you are very pretty i would try getting a few layers in your hair to help keep the waves under control and that side bang to help give you an older apperance

just dont' forget when you act like you think youre important other people start to think it too and then you'll start to feel it inside


amaay says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

you are far, far from ugly. don't let those jealous people get you down, it's not nicee, ignore hem honeey. ;] i think that you should emphaise your eyes by adding some black eyeliner and mascara to your eyes, and a bit of natural coloured eyeshadoow? and really thats all you need. also, for your hair you could get some side bangss and some layers, and maybe straighten it when you caan? and keep working towards those contact lenses, they would allow you to show of those beautiful features of yours. :] apart from that, theeen you don't need to change a thing!



auri says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

Your pretty girly(: i love your hair its beautiful, maybe you should get long layers and some bangs. Then if you wanna dye it maybe like blonde highlights. and if you want, put on a light shade of lip gloss =) ill leave a picture too so you have some idea of what i mean heh.


shinja says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

You are not ugly! I love your hair and you have great skin. About your nose, you glasses makes it seem bigger then it is, if you get contacts you wouldn't have that problem :thumbup:


dominique says:

Posted on 16 Jul 2009

you could aslo do one of the hair styles i posted- they can be worn Scrunched and straightened. they loook adorable scrunched. all hav to do is put mousse on towel dried hair and scrunch in and maybe a touch of hair spray or curl boosting spray gel.


ledzepppx27 says:

Posted on 17 Jul 2009

aww ur not ugly!! ur soo pretty!!


darkyouth123 says:

Posted on 22 Jul 2009

hell mann.!! gal..u ARE pretty.!!

get that thing off ur mind.!!!

u hv got a really nice face.!!

what u need to do is.. : STAY SiMPLE.!!

brush up ur hair n curl them...with red highlights only towards the bottom...

n remove ur glasses... wear contacts.!!

gawd...u r gonna rock this earth.!!!

u r really very beautiful... be very thankful.!!!!!

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